see dali48 and teaching and writing diary & books in Erkrath, and photographing his ancestor's grave during a visit in Steinbach etc.
22.01.1998 - Interpretation of dali48
You know well that everything is perishable and dying. - It is, therefore, only natural that your mother has now died. - The older generation usually dies first of course. - Your mother was old (40 years - d.48) and suffering (see leukemia, etc. - d.48). She will not have regretted that she has had to leave her body. - You can now help her very much by promoting spiritual practice and doing good deeds in her name. - She will feel happy and liberated. - So please do not be sad ... (Tibetan letter of condolence)
Dalai writes letter for Sushma Swaraj, Tibetan govt expressed ...
Aug 7, 2019 - Also, the Tibetan Parliament in exile wrote the letter expressing condolences. Speaker of Tibetan Parliament-in-Exile, Pema Jungney offers his ...
A person who experiences the heavy loss of a loved one for the first time - will probably be overwhelmed by the violence of oppressive feelings (see death means 100% stress for the survivors, divorce or separation from the partner mean 90% stress etc. - d.48), such as intense grief, anger, denial, retreat, and guilt, which is suddenly expressed in him ... (S. Rinpoche)Holmes and Rahe stress scale - Wikipedia
The Holmes and Rahe stress scale is a list of 43 stressful life events that can contribute to ... The neutrality of this article is disputed. ... Death of a spouse, 100.
People who are mourning themselves experience a kind of death, - and like someone who actually dies, they also need the certainty that the agitated emotions they experience are quite natural. - You must know that the process of mourning is long and often can be very agonizing, and that mourning always recurs. - Mourning, which can not be expressed, on the other hand, continues for a very long time. - In the case of a sudden death, the survivors often suffer from wild, unexpected outbursts of rage and hatred, on what they think to be the cause of death. - We must help them find an appropriate expression for this anger, - for if it is suppressed, it can lead to chronic depression sooner or later. - We must help them get rid of the anger and hatred, - and to express the depth of the pain hidden behind it. - Only then can they begin with the painful but ultimately healing process of letting go. - All the experienced persons in near-death, however, emphasize that they have understood the necessity of changing their lives now. - Because "the task that we have here in life is more important." - To change our lives "now", - that is the turning point. Would it not be tragic if the central message of the near-death experience - that life is sacred and has to be lived with an intensity and sincerity corresponding to this sacred meaning, - would be suppressed by a simple romance with the death? ... (J. Tatelbaum)
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Judy Tatelbaum, an expert on overcoming grief and emotional suffering, encourages people to face and recover from life's inevitable crises courageously.
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