Dienstag, 30. Juni 2020

30.06.2020 - Letter of condolence / Death and stress / Tatelbaum and mourning etc...

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22.01.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

You know well that everything is perishable and dying. - It is, therefore, only natural that your mother has now died. - The older generation usually dies first of course. - Your mother was old (40 years - d.48) and suffering (see leukemia, etc. - d.48). She will not have regretted that she has had to leave her body. - You can now help her very much by promoting spiritual practice and doing good deeds in her name. - She will feel happy and liberated. - So please do not be sad ... (Tibetan letter of condolence)

Dalai writes letter for Sushma Swaraj, Tibetan govt expressed ...


Aug 7, 2019 - Also, the Tibetan Parliament in exile wrote the letter expressing condolences. Speaker of Tibetan Parliament-in-Exile, Pema Jungney offers his ...

A person who experiences the heavy loss of a loved one for the first time - will probably be overwhelmed by the violence of oppressive feelings (see death means 100% stress for the survivors, divorce or separation from the partner mean 90% stress etc. - d.48), such as intense grief, anger, denial, retreat, and guilt, which is suddenly expressed in him ... (S. Rinpoche)

Holmes and Rahe stress scale - Wikipedia


The Holmes and Rahe stress scale is a list of 43 stressful life events that can contribute to ... The neutrality of this article is disputed. ... Death of a spouse, 100.

People who are mourning themselves experience a kind of death, - and like someone who actually dies, they also need the certainty that the agitated emotions they experience are quite natural. - You must know that the process of mourning is long and often can be very agonizing, and that mourning always recurs. - Mourning, which can not be expressed, on the other hand, continues for a very long time. - In the case of a sudden death, the survivors often suffer from wild, unexpected outbursts of rage and hatred, on what they think to be the cause of death. - We must help them find an appropriate expression for this anger, - for if it is suppressed, it can lead to chronic depression sooner or later. - We must help them get rid of the anger and hatred, - and to express the depth of the pain hidden behind it. - Only then can they begin with the painful but ultimately healing process of letting go. - All the experienced persons in near-death, however, emphasize that they have understood the necessity of changing their lives now. - Because "the task that we have here in life is more important." - To change our lives "now", - that is the turning point. Would it not be tragic if the central message of the near-death experience - that life is sacred and has to be lived with an intensity and sincerity corresponding to this sacred meaning, - would be suppressed by a simple romance with the death? ... (J. Tatelbaum)

Judy Tatelbaum Presents


Judy Tatelbaum, an expert on overcoming grief and emotional suffering, encourages people to face and recover from life's inevitable crises courageously.
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see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots and corona-virus 2020 etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce honey ...
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