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08.11.2019 - Bradshaw and primary defense mechanisms and primal trust etc...


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11.02.1999 - Interpretation of dali48

Toxic shame leads to isolation - and to silence... - When shame is the foundation of life, man has no limits and is predestined to become addicted - My father was addicted in many ways - He could not say no...
Isolation:
The child in you is isolated and alone - only in this way does it feel that there are limits. If you no longer have relationships with other people - no one can hurt you any more... - Helpers always help themselves. Since they have learned that you are only worth something when you help others, they overcome their feelings of helplessness by helping others - but there is also a real help. But this includes to let people be as they are... - When someone is overwhelmed by his feelings, he is trapped in his inner state. He then experiences the old frozen feelings that have accumulated - and is trapped in the force field of the past... - This eternal inner war takes a lot of time and strength. As paradox as it may sound, but you will only be strong - if you have accepted your weakness... - Words have a tremendous effect - A friendly word can make a person happy for a whole day. Critical utterances can lead to a bad week for us... - Words can hurt worse - as sticks or stones... - Later she played alone in her room to not see the others... - This is the classic behavior of a "lost child"... - In order to guarantee your survival, the primary defense mechanisms of your ego have switched on, so that your mental energy has certainly been frozen - and could not be worked on... - We have not been loved without prejudice - and therefore could not develop trustworthiness... - This creates an insatiable desire which some people try to compensate with oral satisfaction - and become addicted... - Moreover, such a person constantly needs confirmation from the outside - as if he were to cease to exist if he did not receive this confirmation... - Further consequences are the insatiable desire to be touched, an exaggerated concentration on oral sexual practices, the loss of the feeling for the body (see body signals) and the inclination to take everything as a true value, in order to be the fool who believes in lies... - Above all, a lack of satisfaction of early childhood needs leads to the fact that one is ashamed of oneself because one has the feeling that something is wrong with oneself... (J. Bradshaw)

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. Jump to navigation Jump to search. John Elliot Bradshaw (June 29, 1933 – May 8, 2016) was an American educator, counselor, ... of his peers as "One Of The 100 Most Influential Writers On Emotional Health in the 20th Century." ... Bradshaw On: Healing the Shame that Binds You.

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