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April 25, 2010 - Shame and Relationships... by dali48 on HP


29.04.2001 - Interpretation by dali48

Shame is lethal to human... - Shame drives us all into isolation and... - Shame keeps us from getting involved in... - Perhaps you have been misunderstood or ignored or openly... - Perhaps you have been even left completely... - The world can be a very dangerous... - A painful place - You have learned to play it safe... - And so you have to know what shame... - We have established limits... - When these are threatened, we panic or run away, just to make sure that we will never be... - If we do not communicate important feelings, we become prisoners of our own... - It is very painful to be rejected - It requires courage to show yourself, but the rewards far outweigh the... - Who is inwardly happy, doesn’t deal with others so... - People living with themselves and what they do in... - may also accept others better... - What we should not accept: partners who provide... - to abuse us physically, emotionally, financially or verbally, are unkind to our children, friends, pets, or families, are disloyal or dishonest and belittle our achievements... - Some of us do not trust the... - or they do not believe that love will last... - We feel guilty, vulnerable and weak, if someone loves... - We are dependent, insecure and are afraid of losing... - And all that we do not want to feel... - We are not honest with ourselves... - The only perfect person is that who is gone, you do not want or is married with someone... - Perfection exists only in our imagination - No single person will ever meet all your... - A heart and a soul - this is a fantasy that does not... - To have a successful relationship, both parties must want the same thing at the same... - If this is not the case, it also does not count what else they have in... - Relationships are always a risk, and control is the opposite of... - Control is an obstacle to feelings... - Control is manipulation and locks the doors to our... (Carter / Sokol)


Als Bindungsangst (engl. fear of commitment; gelegentlich latein. Commitorum Metus; auch: .... In Men Who Can't Love hatten Steven Carter und Julia Sokol 1987 das düstere, brandmarkende Porträt eines Typus von beziehungsflüchtigen ...

... Saudade · Schadenfreude · Self-confidence · Shame · Shock · Shyness · Sorrow · Suffering · Surprise · Trust · Wonder · Worry · v · t · e. Apathy is a lack of feeling, emotion, interest, or concern about something of great importance. .... (2005) claimed that an obvious relationship between depression and apathy exists in ...

Solitude is a state of seclusion or isolation, i.e., lack of contact with people. It may stem from bad relationships, loss of loved ones, deliberate choice, infectious ...



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28.03.2019 - Thich Nhat Hanh and feeling and peace and joy etc...

bodies and minds


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April 25, 2010 - Feeling and Perceiving... by dali48 on HP


04.06.2001 - Interpretation by dali48

We are - what we feel and perceive... - Our painful feelings are nothing else than ourselves, or more precisely, they are a part of... - To deny them means denying ourselves - Once we accept these feelings, we begin to feel more... - and the pain is losing some of its intensity... - The most precious gift that we can give to others is our present - When you love someone, but are rarely there for the... - this is not real love... - If we like only the good parts of a... - then it is not love... - Nonviolence does not mean inaction - Nonviolence means to act... - and compassionate...  - The roots of war lie in our everyday... - how we promote the growth of our industry... - against nature, the "Gods", fellow humans, animals, plants, and life... - as we practice our society... - how we consume goods... - We need to look at the situation closely... - and we will discover the roots of war... - We can not blame one side or another - Together breathe and to plant a smile that is education for... - The correct way to remove the roots of war, is to transform toxins... - in our collective consciousness (see group or mass therapy etc. - d.48)... - When we love someone, we want to be physically close to this... - if we have an anger at someone, then we would not touch or want to be... - Body and mind are not separated... - The best way to care for the future is to take care of the present moment... - We must stop destroying our bodies and our souls for an idea of future... - We have to learn to touch the peace and joy that are available now... - Our breath connects our bodies and our minds... (Thich Nhat Hanh)

Thích Nhất Hạnh (/ˈtɪk ˈnjʌt ˈhʌn/; Vietnamese: [tʰǐk̟ ɲə̌t hâjŋ̟ˀ] ( About this sound listen); born as Nguyễn Xuân Bảo on October 11, 1926) is a ...


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