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08.02.1999 - Interpretation of dali48

The wounded little boy in us had no father to whom he could bind himself - and therefore he could never be separated from his mother - Without fathering, the little boy in you never had the opportunity to experience what it means to be loved by a man. How can he love himself as a man? - The loss of the father is the wound of the man. It can not be cured by a woman... - Life is difficult; there is no Christmas man - "Sex is not something we have, but something that we are... - I have the right to determine myself how, when and where I want to be sexually active with another person... - Feelings are not right or wrong. They are simply there. I do not let myself be manipulated by your anger, or by your sadness, your fear, or your joy... - Learn to ask many questions. No person understands the same sentence in the same way... - I have the right to determine by whom I want to be touched. I let the other people know when and how they can touch me. I can always escape the physical contact when I feel no longer comfortable without having to make a statement. I will not allow anyone to harm my body, unless I am in danger of life... - Even the most healthy love among adults is bound to conditions. The reality consists of both. Other people... - are both positive and negative - There is no light without shadow, no sound without silence, no joy without pain, no holding without letting go... - Rage is anger, which is tied by shame, and gets more and more intense over time. It is perfectly reasonable to be afraid of one's own rage and the rage of other people... - Wrath represents the energy with which we defend our basic needs. Without anger, we will be walkers or people who always want to please all people... - My room is my sanctuary - Sometimes I close the door to be alone ... - For a certain period of time, I put value on my own workplace, my own place at the dining room table and on my own chair. No one may use anything without my consent. Part of the time belongs to me - I can share it with you, but I do not have to - If I allow you to use my things, I expect you to put them back into the place where you found them... (J. Bradshaw)

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