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When feelings are bound by shame, one becomes completely insensitive with time - this process is the prerequisite for every form of addiction, because only in the state of intoxication is such a person able to feel anything at all - Every addiction offers an opportunity for a man to have pleasant feelings or to avoid unpleasant ones - The mental injury caused by the sick shame breaks the self - One is made small before oneself and in ones own eyes an object of contempt - Every time a person who is deformed has his own true emotions, he is ashamed - and to avoid this pain, he stuns himself...
Splitting: "I can not remember what happened"...
Conversion: "If I have the feeling that something like that happens, I eat or have sex"...
Adult children have a certain way of avoiding true suffering:
They remain in their minds by concentrating on things in an obsessed way, analyzing everything, constantly discussing and reading, and they waste a lot of energy trying to get to the bottom of everything - Without pain, no success (see 12 steps-Program). If the child has been hurt in you, this phase (39-52 years) can take catastrophic forms... - We move from the illusion of certainty - to the certainty of the illusion... (S. Keen)

When we are ready to trust... - we have to make new choices:
Work, relationships, spirituality etc...
Sick shame:
"I can cause chronic pain that never subsides. The pain I am causing you is so intolerable that you have to pass it on to others:
by control, perfectionism, contempt, criticism, blame, envy, condemnation, power and anger...
The pain is so intense that one must cover it with addictions, rigid roles, repetition forces, and unconscious defense mechanisms...
Sick shame:
transforms what you are into what you are doing and what you have ("Ahasver, the eternal Jew," Wagner's Flying Dutchman, Dostoyevsky's man in the underground, Kierkegaard's deceiver, Goethe's Faust, etc )...
The sick shame murders the soul - and is passed on from one generation to the next...
The divine child was abandoned - and is all alone...
As Alice Miller writes in "In the Beginning was Education," it is worse off than someone who has survived a concentration camp... - The ill-treated prisoner of a concentration camp is internally free - to hate his pursuers... - He does not have to give his own self away - A child does not stand before the hated - but before the beloved persecutor. The child suffers either passively - or is aggressive, acts, suppresses everything, projects etc... - As a child of poor people, I am still unsettled - when I enter a club or go to some other noble local... (J. Bradshaw)

Shame is an unpleasant self-conscious emotion typically associated with a negative evaluation ... A "sense of shameis the feeling known as guilt but "consciousness" or awareness of ...... British Medical Journal, 328(7454), 1470-1473.
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From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. Jump to navigation Jump to search. John Elliot Bradshaw (June 29, 1933 – May 8, 2016) was an American educator, counselor, ... of his peers as "One Of The 100 Most Influential Writers On Emotional Health in the 20th Century." ... Bradshaw On: Healing the Shame that Binds You.


Humiliations, spankings and beatings, slaps in the face, betrayal, sexual exploitation, derision, neglect, etc. are all forms of mistreatment, because they injure the integrity and dignity of a child, even if their consequences are not visible right away. However, as adults, most ...

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09.11.2019 - Yudkin and sugar / Hoppal and shamanism / Jankovich and prophecies / Nostradamus etc...

 
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14.02.1999 - Interpretation of dali48

If there was a new-discovered substance that would be as harmful to health as the factory sugar - it would have been forbidden...

Sugar:
Metabolism, enzyme budget, fat digestion, myopia, circulatory disorders, digestion disorders, cholecystitis, skin damage, gout, caries, cancer, arteriosclerosis, myocardial infarction...

(Prof. Yudkin)
 
This renewed shamanism successfully counteracts the selfish, almost possessed materialistic culture of our time with an openly altruistic ideology - offering alternative ways of life, free self-treatment and other positive life programs... (M. Hoppal)

We human beings are more and more changing nature - because the population has multiplied explosively... - And if this continues, the whole substance of the earth is completely exploited - The earth is turned into a rubbish dump, the nature is polluted with radioactivity, the natural climate is disturbed (see the greenhouse effect, ozone hole, climate change since ca. 2000 etc. - d.48)... - Man is a repository for all produced chemical toxins because everything comes into the food chain...
Old Testament, and apocalyptic prophecies were confirmed by Nostradamus as well as by many present clairvoyants... - Please leave the earth as you want to refind it again... (S. von Jankovich)



John Yudkin FRSC (8 August 1910 – 12 July 1995) was a British physiologist and nutritionist, and the founding Professor of the Department of Nutrition at Queen ...
Died‎: ‎12 July 1995 (aged 84); London, England
Education‎: ‎BSc (London) 1929; BA (Cambridge) ...
Notable work‎: ‎Pure, White and Deadly

HoppálM., Pentikänen J. (eds.): Northern Religions and Shamanism. Ethnologia Uralica, Budapest and Helsinki. Akadémiai Kiadó and Finnish Literature ...

Stefan von Jankovich, (geboren als: Pribéri Jankovich István Kálmán) (* 25. Januar 1920 in Budapest; † 23. Januar 2002 in Zürich) war ein ...

Michel de Nostredame (14 or 21 December 1503 – 2 July 1566), also known as Nostradamus, was a French apothecary and allegedly a doctor. He was born in ...

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