Freitag, 4. April 2025

04.04.2025 - J. M. Simmel and bees & neonics etc. / Carter & Sokol and commitment-phobia etc.

dali48 and private tuition since 8/1983, menaced since 1989, and writing diary & books & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010

dali48 and pdlaying chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.

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dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.




see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 
Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 
Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and UBI & ground pension since 2008 etc.

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)
May "God" bless you! - see dali48 and may the Saints & Guardian Angels bless you etc.!

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about chick shredding, and buying Free range eggs etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."
see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.
I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc
see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..
see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.
see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)
see dali48 and health and suitable shoes (see e.g. Canles etc. - d.48) & foot hygiene etc.
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia
siehe dali48 und "Wie viel Wald verliert Deutschland aktuell pro Jahr? - Die Ergebnisse sind alarmierend: Von Januar 2018 bis einschließlich April 2021 wurden in Deutschland auf rund 501.000 Hektar Fläche Baumverluste verzeichnet. Der Verlust entspricht fast fünf Prozent der gesamten Waldfläche und ist damit erheblich höher als bisher angenommen. 21.02.2022" 
see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 
siehe z.B. Air quality in Mönchengladbach etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.
siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.
see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.
see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)
see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s

see dali48 and reading about money & war, - and feeding the poor & birds etc.
In Armut lebt: Jeder 3. Student & 5. Rentner, Wer kein „Entlastungspaket“ bekommt: Studierende, Rentner ohne Grundrente, Kranke, https://pic.twitter.com/RUv88KaLbx

see dali48 & for UBI since 2008 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 & for alternative energy as e.g. wind power & solar energy and solar- 

lamp, roof, panel, cooker, window solar-foil etc. since the 70s as a student in Tübingen etc.

see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.
Bilder
diary 3: by dali48 on twitter : Dali, 48: Amazon.de: Bücher
Amazon.de: dali48: Bücher, Biographie, neuestes Aktualisierung

28.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48 + update
J. M. Simmel: "The bees have gone mad (see bees & neonics etc. - d.48)!" - People are unteachable and will remain it. - It might still be that some people turn the steering wheel around. - There will be a hard landing, but it will not be the apocalypse. - Who does not believe in miracles is not a realist. - and that is why I write (Simmel). In addition, I do not want to make these neo-nazis happy that I too keep my mouth. - Man has crossed two limits by researching 2 nuclei: the cell nucleus and atomic nucleus. - This was and is sin. - These limit crossings are the work of the devil. - Most fruits of science are harvested and misused by the military anyway. - Capitalism is a fatal new world order. - Now capitalism has no longer the slightest inhibition to show itself of its boundless side. - All these Mega-corporations and mergers remind me of the Tower of Babel - and it will end like this ... (Rhinish Post, 27.04.2001)

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In January 2025, the UK government denied an emergency application to use a neonicotinoid pesticide on sugar beet in England. This was the first time in five years that the government did not grant an emergency authorization for Cruiser SB, a neonicotinoid that contains thiamethoxam. The decision was made to protect bees. 
Why the decision was made
There is clear evidence that neonicotinoids are toxic to pollinators like bees. 
Even at non-lethal doses, neonicotinoids can cause cognitive problems that impact foraging and hive productivity. 
The British Beekeepers Association (BBKA) has been concerned that the previous UK government's decision to grant emergency approvals for Thiamethoxam did not follow scientific evidence. 
What's next
The UK government is working with devolved governments to find a shared way forward. The goal is to move to more sustainable alternative methods that benefit the environment, pollinators, farmers, and food security. 
The Birds and Bees Protection Act would ban the sale or use of seeds coated with neonicotinoids, as well as the use of these insecticides on turf and ornamental plants. 

Searching for personal security, health and sex responsible solutions is a good way for 2 people to figure out - whether they can combine reality with romance. - Be realistic. The divorce statistics prove that the marriage does not do anything for the better. - Keeping conflicts on a rational and realistic level is one of the first things we all have to learn to keep our relationship rooted in reality. - This means that we stop staging huge dramas with our behavior and our words what is typical for unstable relationships - that is, do not poke doors, do not throw with heavy objects, no ultimatums or threats, no "either as I want or I go", and absolutely no revenge tactics. - The universe will only protect you if you protect yourself. - Being together is not enough to keep a relationship alive. - That is the same for being monogamous, being married, sex, etc. - Show yourself how you are is to unlock your world and allow the spouse to stay. - That is the way to lasting connections. - Nothing hold back. Use no tactics! ... (Carter / Sokol)

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Gamophobia (Fear of Commitment) - Signs, Symptoms and Treatment
Commitment phobia is an intense fear of commitment to long-term relationships or other commitments. It can also be called gamophobia, which comes from the Greek words for "marriage" and "fear". 
Symptoms 
Avoiding relationships or ending them prematurely
Being unable to make long-term plans
Feeling anxious when in a relationship
Feeling uneasy or trapped when your partner shows signs of investment
Questioning the relationship
Causes 
Past traumatic experiences
Lack of trust
Fear of rejection
Desire for independence
Low self-esteem and self-confidence
Unpleasant family divorce
Treatment
Couples therapy can help address commitment issues. In couples therapy, partners meet with a therapist together to explore issues affecting their relationship. 
Relationship impact
Commitment phobia can have a negative impact on an individual's mental health and on their relationships. 
Other considerations
It's possible to fall in love even if you have a fear of commitment. Fear and love are not mutually exclusive. 

Johannes Mario Simmel - Wikipedia


Johannes Mario Simmel (7 April 1924 – 1 January 2009), also known as J. M. Simmel, was an Austrian writer. He was born in Vienna and grew up in Austria and ...

Steven A. Carter - Wikipedia


Carter and Sokol's first book on commitmentphobia, Men Who Can't Love, was an instant bestseller after Carter's first appearance on The Oprah Winfrey Show in ...
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Julia Sokol (Author of He's Scared, She's Scared) - Goodreads


 Rating: 3,9 - ‎1,392 votes
Julia Sokol is the author of HER FIRST MARRIAGE (2.00 avg rating, 1 rating, 0 reviews, published 2013), He's Scared, She's Scared (3.96 avg rating, 406 r...

04.04.2025 - J. Borysenko and Life, Stress, Principle, Breathing, Observing etc. / dali48 on Goodreads etc.

dali48 and private tuition since 8/1983, menaced since 1989, and writing diary & books & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010

dali48 and pdlaying chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.

dali48 profile image

dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.




see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 
Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 
Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and UBI & ground pension since 2008 etc.

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)
May "God" bless you! - see dali48 and may the Saints & Guardian Angels bless you etc.!

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about chick shredding, and buying Free range eggs etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."
see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.
I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc
see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..
see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.
see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)
see dali48 and health and suitable shoes (see e.g. Canles etc. - d.48) & foot hygiene etc.
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia
siehe dali48 und "Wie viel Wald verliert Deutschland aktuell pro Jahr? - Die Ergebnisse sind alarmierend: Von Januar 2018 bis einschließlich April 2021 wurden in Deutschland auf rund 501.000 Hektar Fläche Baumverluste verzeichnet. Der Verlust entspricht fast fünf Prozent der gesamten Waldfläche und ist damit erheblich höher als bisher angenommen. 21.02.2022" 
see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 
siehe z.B. Air quality in Mönchengladbach etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.
siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.
see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.
see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)
see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s

see dali48 and reading about money & war, - and feeding the poor & birds etc.
In Armut lebt: Jeder 3. Student & 5. Rentner, Wer kein „Entlastungspaket“ bekommt: Studierende, Rentner ohne Grundrente, Kranke, https://pic.twitter.com/RUv88KaLbx

see dali48 & for UBI since 2008 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 & for alternative energy as e.g. wind power & solar energy and solar- 

lamp, roof, panel, cooker, window solar-foil etc. since the 70s as a student in Tübingen etc.

see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.
Bilder
diary 3: by dali48 on twitter : Dali, 48: Amazon.de: Bücher
Amazon.de: dali48: Bücher, Biographie, neuestes Aktualisierung

12.05.2001 - Interpretation of dali48 + update
No man is as hard as life! - At home, the principle applies: "Disturbances are only permitted when blood flows! - If we do not keep occupied our "God" with a meaningful task, he threatens to consume us by fears and negative fantasies! - Only when we breathe deeply and become our own observer, we will succeed to make the necessary distance to our mind, which will soon be subordinated to our will! - It would be possible to live in the now and not in unnecessary, morbid fear of the future or full dissatisfaction over the past! - There is no reason to blow up oneself when something has worked out, - and no reason to be hit if something has gone wrong! ... (J. Borysenko)

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Observing your breathing and becoming your own observer can help you create distance from your mind. This practice can help you become more mindful and aware of your thoughts and feelings. 
How to practice observing your breathing 
Sit in a comfortable posture
Breathe smoothly and evenly
Focus on your breathing, feeling the transitions between breaths
Notice any thoughts that come into your head
Accept your thoughts without judgment
Benefits of observing your thoughts
You can become more aware of when you're caught up in your thoughts 
You can develop the power of choice to experience something different 
You can develop self-awareness 
You can learn to disidentify from the contents of your conscious personality 
You can also develop your powers of observation by: Trying something new, Going somewhere new, Heightening your awareness, and Focusing your mind. 

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Joan Borysenko, Ph.D., is one of the leading experts on stress, spirituality, and the mind/body connection. She has a doctorate in medical sciences from Harvard ...
Author dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Baccalaureate 1968, High School at St. Michael... Military Service in 1968/69... Studies in Tubingen, Anglistik ...