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28.05.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

Accepting your lost child with open arms is the beginning of your work and the courage to self-love - It is a life-long commitment - Do not forget, of all the people you know, you are the only person you will never lose... - Detachment process means - to leave the parental home. Outbreak from hypnosis - and break the spell. Work on anger and resentment. Group therapy. Pick up the unique child in your heart with open arms - and place your primary defense mechanisms and rigid roles - Stop compulsive behavior. In order to reveal the shame transferred to you - being normal and mediocre. Corrective experiences with regard to basic needs. Original pain - and mourning work of abandonment. Structure of the values. I-repair and border work - Re-experiencing childhood needs as an adult. Longing for a stable family - Guilt of survivors... - In order to lead an appropriate life, we need strong ego limits - As overcautious co-dependent survivors, our lives were dominated by suffering and threat... (J. Bradshaw)

John Elliot Bradshaw (June 29, 1933 – May 8, 2016) was an American educator, counselor, motivational speaker, and author who hosted a number of PBS ...
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02.08.2019 - Bradshaw and family system and trauma work / Narcissistic injury etc...

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27.05.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

Addiction dependencies have their own properties of addiction. They are incurable ... - We have to let the feelings... - become reality through our abandonment - that is, we have to give up the primary ego defenses - denial and deception with regard to our parents and families - Remember that abandonment includes narcissistic deprivation, neglect of our dependency needs, physical, emotional and sexual abuse as well as our entanglement in the needs of our family life ... (J. Bradshaw)

Probably the greatest narcissistic wound - not to be loved as what you were - can not heal without mourning... - Mourning begins with shock and denial - It continues in a kind of haggle, engages in rage, guilt, repentance, grief, injury and finally ending in acceptance - Most of us have their whole life involved in mourning - we are firmly in the stages of shock and denial - so the adult children suffer from chronic depression... - You must not to be loved, not at the expense of your own... (Jo Coudert)

John Elliot Bradshaw (June 29, 1933 – May 8, 2016) was an American educator, counselor, motivational speaker, and author who hosted a number of PBS ...
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Narcissistic rage is a psychological construct that describes a reaction to narcissistic injury, which is conceptualized as a perceived threat to a narcissist's ...


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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...