dali48 and teaching and writing books and cycling in Erkrath etc...
28.05.1998 - Interpretation of dali48
Accepting your lost child with open arms is the beginning of your work and the courage to self-love - It is a life-long commitment - Do not forget, of all the people you know, you are the only person you will never lose... - Detachment process means - to leave the parental home. Outbreak from hypnosis - and break the spell. Work on anger and resentment. Group therapy. Pick up the unique child in your heart with open arms - and place your primary defense mechanisms and rigid roles - Stop compulsive behavior. In order to reveal the shame transferred to you - being normal and mediocre. Corrective experiences with regard to basic needs. Original pain - and mourning work of abandonment. Structure of the values. I-repair and border work - Re-experiencing childhood needs as an adult. Longing for a stable family - Guilt of survivors... - In order to lead an appropriate life, we need strong ego limits - As overcautious co-dependent survivors, our lives were dominated by suffering and threat... (J. Bradshaw)
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09/22/2011 - Interview with Author dali48 on Google +