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22.01.2020 - Bradshaw and pedagogy / Pathological relationships / Detoxification / Proust and pain etc...

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The real culprit is the black pedagogy:
Power, control, perfectionism, criticism, contempt, blame, anger - these are all ways of transferring shame to others - Anger is a safeguard against self-exposure and a measure to keep others at bay - Most of today's people are addicted - as we still hold on to the educational practices of 150 years ago - that have done great harm to mankind and still inflict it ... (J. Bradshaw)

Transferred from German-English_translation_requests: Contents. 1 de:Schwarze Pädagogik ... John Bradshaw, Bradshaw On: The Family, page 8.

Pathological relationships:
Addiction / coercion or marriage of addicts, deceit and repression, lack of healthy boundaries, you tolerate inappropriate behavior, you are constantly seeking recognition, you have difficulties with intimate relationships, you feel guilty if you are self-sufficient - you lie, even though you could tell the truth; mutilated will; They react instead of acting creatively; They remain faithful to misconduct; blunted; They feel different than the others; anxious and over-vigilant; low self-esteem and internalized shame; They confuse love with pity; overly principled and serious or just the opposite; it's hard for you to finish something; They are overly dependent, clinging and terrified of being abandoned; They lead the life of a victim; They are intimidated by anger and personal criticism; Delusions of control; over responsible or completely irresponsible ...
Diarrhea, cough, runny nose or fever are signs of self-purification and detoxification processes, with which the body wants to bring a disturbed balance back into balance ... (I. Hobert)

Orval Hobart Mowrer (January 23, 1907 – June 20, 1982) was an American psychologist and ... Sullivan's theories on the role of disturbances in interpersonal relationships with "significant others" ... Mowrer turned the concept around to place the emphasis on the pathological potential of misdeeds when they are kept secret.


Pain is the doctor we listen to most - We only make promises to goodness and wisdom, but we obey pain ... (M. Proust)

Valentin Louis Georges Eugène Marcel Proust (10 July 1871 – 18 November 1922) was a French novelist, essayist and critic, best known as the author of À la ...
Occupation‎: ‎Novelist‎, ‎essayist‎, ‎critic
Died‎: ‎18 November 1922 (aged 51); Paris, France

Mental pain:
Worries, feelings of guilt, remorse, contradictions, confusion, fear, sorrow or anger are expressions of emotional pain ...
The wise learn from the misfortune, the stupid fall into it again and again - because who does not want to hear, must feel ... (I. Hobert)


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