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17.12.2019 - S. de Beauvoir and old age and couples / Gustave Flaubert etc...


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Sick eroticism is the core of many delusions and cause of melancholic depression... - Sexuality, vitality and activity are inextricably linked (especially in old age)... (S. de Beauvoir)

To work creatively - it requires a certain aggressiveness, a certain exuberance that biologically has its origin in the libido... (Flaubert)

Age is a time of general frustration - It produces unclear resentments that can be expressed in the form of jealousy - The loss of sexuality brings with many old couples one-sided or mutual hatred feelings - which can easily express themselves in jealousy... - Couples have more problems with aging than singles - because the emotional relationships of the couple deteriorate - The health impairments, the isolation through retirement and the going away of the children lead them to live almost exclusively for each other - More than ever, each of the 2 demands protection and love... - And both are less able than ever to fulfill this need - Permanent dissatisfaction leads to the demand for the permanent presence of the other, to jealousy and cruelty - The separation sometimes gives these people a fatal blow - They can no longer get along without each other - Life together brings them more grief than happiness... - Even couples who can look back on a happy life together are often brought out of balance by their age - In the case of people who are worn out by badly coped conflicts, the age still increases the opposites - Frustrations cause in old people an aggressive and demanding behavior... - Love, trust, all the satisfactions which they demand they want to have at once... - This impatience causes them to tolerate no resistance... (S. de Beauvoir)

Simone Lucie Ernestine Marie Bertrand de Beauvoir was a French writer, intellectual, ... Paris (B.A., M.A.). Partner(s), Jean-Paul Sartre (1929–1980; his death)
Partner(s)‎: ‎Jean-Paul Sartre‎ (1929–1980; his ...
Notable ideas‎: ‎"‎Ethics of ambiguity‎"; ‎Feminist ...
Died‎: ‎14 April 1986 (aged 78); Paris, France
Born‎: ‎Simone Lucie Ernestine Marie Bertrand ...

Gustave Flaubert was a French novelist. Highly influential, he has been considered the leading exponent of literary realism in his country. He is known ...
Literary movement‎: ‎Realism‎, ‎romanticism
Born‎: ‎12 December 1821; ‎Rouen‎, France
Died‎: ‎8 May 1880 (aged 58); Croisset (Cantele...
Genre‎: ‎Fictional prose

Golden Snow  
Your above post has so much truth dali48, true aging with its illness and much more can bring much stress to an aging couple. With my husband illness, it started long before he grew old, so it drew along with us, I guess I adapt easily and my heart is gentle, I have compassion and love for those that need me. I also realize this does not happen to some couples. I almost think there should be a group-guide for aging couples. My feeling. Quote: Age is a time of general frustration - It produces unclear resentments that can be expressed in the form of jealousy - The loss of sexuality brings with many old couples one-sided or mutual hatred feelings - which can easily express themselves in jealousy... unquote.

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