Donnerstag, 16. März 2017

13.07.2019 - Bloomfield and defense / Beer and praising / Boeckel and sublimation / Transcendence etc...

15.03.2017 - Man3 and Tragedy and Buddha etc...
dali48 and writing books and photographing apple blossoms etc...


16.03.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

In our case, both partners had begun to defend themselves and to alienate themselves from one another - because they reminded each other of their parents - So they now had to understand how they had gotten into these behaviors and how they could get rid of them - This is possible if one admits to oneself and ones partner that one is responsible for oneself - if one can not enjoy beauty without restraint, if one takes an attitude of defense, and if one does not let arise feelings of trust and intimacy... (H. H. Bloomfield)

3 times a day praising each other - and the psychotherapist is superfluous - Apparently the previewing of the future does not mean liberation, for example by a higher knowledge - but rather a burden by the shadows of future fates - which nevertheless can not be averted... (U. Beer)

I am also the other, the animal, the impulsive - we can not constantly suppress a part of ourselves and live in opposition to it - rarely sublimation succeeds - What we have to strive for is harmony... (J. F. Boeckel)

Transcendence - is never experienced directly - but always mediated by something else, where it shines or reflects itself... - Experiences with transcendence can not be sustained (only be described in a diary etc. - d.48)... - They are evaporating, just when we want to hold them. You will only learn - as the word transcendence says it, in transition, in passing by - A moment of sadness, for example, where we give up something or something is taken away from us - we learn:
Life does not consist in having - but in being...

Parental alienation is the process, and the result, of psychological manipulation of a child into ... The most common cause is one parent wishing to exclude the other parent from the life ... Thephenomenon itself, however, has a much longer history. ... In parental alienationthe child typically views the two parents in extremely ...

Writing therapy is a form of expressive therapy that uses the act of writing and processing the ... The therapy is usually administered by a therapist or counselor. ... room or their plans for the day), without revealing their emotions or opinions. ... You may write about the same general issues or experiences on all days of writing ...

The Critique of Pure Reason (Kritik der reinen Vernunft) is a 1781 book by the German .... They thus depend exclusively upon experience and are therefore a .... According to Heidegger, transcendental imagination is what Kant also refers to as ..... of investigation for discovering anything save always still other appearances ...


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see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...

13.07.2019 - Bloomfield and Zen Buddhism and parents and needs etc...

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15.03.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

Zen Buddhism is far away from the "classical" Buddhist mysticism of the early period, relatively detached from the person of Buddha - and dedogmatizes Buddhism...
Since our relationships with other people and ourselves are essentially shaped by the way we are to our parents (and beyond their physical death). It is necessary to clarify our often ambivalent feelings of love, hatred and dependency...
A child can survive without the help of others - neither physically nor mentally... - I am loving - you are lovable... - I am the best father... - for myself, which exists - You are the best brother for yourself...
It is not just a question of reaching something in life - but of doing what you do, and doing it gladly...
If you wait for others to fulfill your needs - then only too often important parts of your personality are neglected...
We complain to our children - what we also condemn most of our own person...
We must first be able to make peace with ourselves and our parents - if there is ever to be real peace in the world... (H. H. Bloomfield)

Looking back at the past - it seems to us a strange and unreal dream... (dali48)

The Zen Centre is a Buddhist temple in London, England, and the active arm of the Zen Trust, ... Retrieved October 2, 2007. ^ Simon Bloomfield (2007-04-23).


05.10.2015 - Autoreninterview.doc -  see dali48 on Google,Blogspot,Bod.de,StumbleUpon,Pinterest,Twitter,Goodreads...



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diary of dali48: 08.10.2018 - Ecology and Environment and Interaction... http://dali48.blogspot.com/2018/10/08102018-ecology-and-environment-and.html?spref=tw … see dali48 on Twitter,Google,Blogspot,http://Bod.de,FB,Pinterest,StumbleUpon dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...