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06.09.2019 - Lauster and fact and loneliness / Rilke and happiness and partnership etc...

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Nothing remains as it is at this moment - This is not a pessimism, it is a fact - We should not close our eyes - only because it is more pleasant to look at a beginning than to see the end... (P. Lausetr)

We strive for happiness and well-being, but we are looking at the wrong place, because we strive for recognition and possession, for power and status, for safety and knowledge, and think that we find happiness there - We want to have the fear of life in the grip. It can only be temporarily covered - since all this can be lost at any time (and even life, only constant change and death are certain)... - So we have to let go of what creates fear - In a partner relationship it is the fear of loss - Anything that minimizes anxiety can be lost - even the partner himself, for he can die from one day to the next - and we ourselves, by the way, too - So we must let the other be, as he is - He is to leave us just as we are - I let him be as he is without detracting or degrading him - Letting go brings us and the partner into freedom - But we do not want freedom, but attachment (as presumed security)... - In principle, no one can help the other in life, not even ones own mother - Everyone has to go through the conflicts of life himself - he is ultimately alone... (R. M. Rilke)

Being alone is necessary - Only loneliness and isolation can be agonizing... - But, and they all do not want to know it - that "love is something heavy", especially partnership... - By mutual dominance and intolerance - arise intolerance, and mental injuries... (P. Lauster)

René Karl Wilhelm Johann Josef Maria Rilke (4 December 1875 – 29 December 1926), better known as Rainer Maria Rilke was a Bohemian-Austrian poet and ...
Died‎: ‎29 December 1926 (aged 51); ‎Montreux, ...
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Language‎: ‎German, French
Nationality‎: ‎Austrian

There is a clear distinction between feeling lonely and being socially isolated (for example, a loner). In particular, one way of thinking about loneliness is as a discrepancy between one's necessary and achieved levels of social interaction, while solitude is simply the lack of contact with people.

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