23.01.2014 – "Mokoy and Birimbirr" and Ancestors etc. by dali48
dali48 and living till 1964, and visiting & photographing Groß-Comburg in SHA-Steinbach etc.
17.03.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
Often "Mokoy" (Psyche) clings to the soul of a surviving spouse or any other related person, so that these people cannot be removed from their emotional dependence on the deceased after death. - The "Mokoy" is a sort of "dark part" of our nature which must be distributed with powerful rituals...
Aboriginal people call "Mokoy" also the shadow. - The shadow of the man disappears with death, during his lighter part, the "Birimbirr" (dead soul or soul of the ancestors), continues to exist...
The kind of rebirth (soul of ancestors) depends on many uncertainties, because if a soul of ancestors wants to represent himself, it must not necessarily take the shape of a human. - This can be in all sorts of incarnate as an animal, a plant, as rock, river or other natural henomenon...
For the "Aboriginal" it is not important, as they believe - that everything in nature has the same value and equal right to exist...
Funerals are for us - if we, or the disappeared were not (or are not etc. - d.48) united in love - a rather onerous duty, after which we too quickly get back on the agenda. - The death and burial of others reminds us in an unpleasant way of our own mortality...
What is the deeper meaning of these ceremonies? - Well, they are psychological mourning. All the negative emotions of loss and guilt that are excessive will be let out, albeit in a ritualized form...
Our psychiatrists are living in a part of it that we shed our farewell to the dead, at best, tears, and swallow the rest of grief. - In therapy, the patient will experience the event again to make up the missed work of mourning... (R. Craan)
Golden Snow
“As I read this, dali48 I remembered some words from my Uncle Lewis . His brother had died and he was sitting on the bank of the river. I sat with him. I never said a word because I knew he was sad ... he spoke in a very low voice (he called me Mossy because I slept in the woods on the cool moss most days in summer ). Mosey he said, look over there as he pointed to a large tree under which stood a buck ... he is in him , he will visit us often ... he is in the breeze, the trees , he was here, he always will be ... I believe we go home to the Father who created us ...but because we were here , we will always be a part of this earth” …
23.01.2014 - Depression and Love and Relationships etc. by dali48
dali48 and meditating after grammar school near river Kocher in SHA in the 60s
08.11.2000 - Interpretation of dali48
The heavier a loss in adulthood is, the deeper a separation hurts in the present, - the greater must the parental love in childhood have been, so that a man does not fall into depression...
(P. Schellenbaum)
Freud writes: "The melancholy (depression) is a deeply painful depression, a waiver of the interest in the environment (outside world), a loss of ability to love, an inhibition of each performance and the reduction of self-esteem"...
He (the depressive person), for example, does not know that he has lost with the partner the sense of himself, too, because he denies himself by the fusion with the lost self. - The depressed person takes revenge on the original objects by a detour through self-punishment... (S. Freud)
Personal exposure means therefore exposure of the other, self-aggression means hostility against the other - In this way, Freud explains the mystery of the suicidal tendencies...
In mourning, the world has become poor, in depression, it is the ego itself - The depressed person loses himself to the lost...
The open wound of depression attracts everything that is foreign, - and pushes back everything that is your own...
Because the depressed person is merged with the lost love object, he is identical with the loss and loses his own ability to love. - His relationship has become nothing, so he feels himself as nothing. - Against the putative external pressure, he gives pressure back, - and doesn’t relax and let himself drop... (S. Freud)
Golden Snow
“Having experienced the death of my husband I see myself in this post ... this first even parts of the second year I found myself always looking to find myself ... being alone for the first time in years was a lost and terrible feeling... I felt the lost feeling both night and day ... the other side of the bed at night was empty forever , my days filled with nothingness ... I felt like I did not know which way to turn , everything seemed empty ... nothing worth doing ... I would stand in the kitchen at meal time crying and ending up with an apple or something easy to eat ... it seemed not worth making for myself ... Christmas I do not remember till this day ... it was always the best time of the year ... meaning for anything was gone ... the first year is still most a blank to me ... having good friends was a God send to me I know now ... at the time they were just figures around me ... death is never really accepted they said, I was told but I do not remember ... I was planning his home coming . I now remember their sad looks, the nurses used to hug me ... parting is not sweet, sorry it is a nightmare for months” …
23.01.2014 - Buddha and Suffering and "a middle way" etc. by dali48
dali48 and writing books and photographing lilac blossoms in the park of Wickrath etc.
09.09.2000 - Interpretation of dali48
How he (Buddha) had separated from the luxury, he let behind the painful practices of the salvation seeking "Sramanen." His answer was a middle way, - out of the suffering of impermanence, which avoids the extremes of worldliness and renunciation... (V. Zotz)
The real doctors bow before the deity, for in their own art - they have little resources... (Hippocrates)
Risk factors that most often lead to death:
Smoking, alcohol, drugs (too much), overeating, sedentary lifestyle, motoring, ambition, desire for money and prestige. - The Epidemiological studies have shown this clear... (H. Schaefer)
In order to motivate them to change their behavior, it is not sufficient to address only the thought and reason, - feeling and experience have to be addressed, too... (S. Das)
There are diseases in which the patient is not fled, in order to escape reality, but he needs to protect himself - against an insulting reality to be healed... (D. Beck)
Golden Snow
“dali48 you have a post today that everyone should read... we start out life, if we are blessed with good health and continue to think it will last forever and then comes the day we wake up and find out we might die and our minds slow down and we become afraid of what the next day or even the next second will bring ... I remember looking at my doctor and saying you must be wrong I do not believe you can do nothing for me ... stay home stay out of your trigger points ? why what was he asking me to do , stop living ... I did not realize at the time just where these chemicals could be found ... I was amazed when he said you are wearing them , on your clothes, from washing soaps, on your skin from soaps, even my lipstick ... I was in shock ... How on earth would I ever stay away from them ... A new life style started that very day ... I spent the next three weeks in chemical detox, and was learning a new way of life ... all my clothes were washed in "safe" cleaners including my hair ... bath or sauna morning and afternoon ... it is now over 14 years since I started the clinic ... I am not well yet but better ... drugs do not help me but natural things from nature nurture me , most drugs did not help so I have declined from them ... my live is lonely because most are unsafe to come near me... I protect myself as best as possible but get sick often just trying to live in the world of over-used chemicals” …
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
https://www.facebook.com/100000452958045/videos/372377540163904/
dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
"Stay in your inner world (original) - the outside world is the false version, see e.g. hunger, illness, biodiversity, climate, inflation, war etc." - instead of 90 % tax for the richest & 3-5 € per day for the poorest people etc. (dali48)
22.05.2024 - I didn't see a bee or butterfly this year in Wickrath ... (dali48)
14.05.2024 - I saw 7 bumble bees and 1 dragonfly till now, no bee or butterfly yet in Wickrath ... (dali48)
31.03.2024 - I saw the first bumble bee on a white nettle blossom in the park of Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
21.06.2023 - I didn't see a butterfly yet in Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
Psychology says, Trust your intuition. It never lies.
see dali48 & FGYO / SIT, language teacher, 1975/76 in Tübingen and Lenzkirch (Black Forest), and wandering in the morning, and in Erkrath (8/1983-5/2010) cooking houseman and teaching in the afternoon, on Saturdays & compact courses during holidays etc.
"Home is not there or there. Home is within you, or nowhere." (Hermann Hesse)
see dali48 and walking and cycling etc. - and without own car in Erkrath since 2004 - and without driving in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
"It takes few words to express the essential" - Paul Éluard
"One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." ... (H. Miller)
"The past is pain, the future uncertainty. The present is all we have" ... (Tao Wong)
„Wer immer die Wahrheit sagt, kann sich ein schlechtes Gedächtnis leisten.“ (F. Sulzer
)
"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." (F. Kafka)
see dali48 and bees and CCD and neonics since ca. 2000 etc.
In "love" are the beginning and the climax - the most beautiful periods etc... (dali48)
"Time spent with cats is never wasted." (S. Freud)
Why not use sun & wind & hydrogen, and hybrid car - instead of oil and gas etc. (dali48)
"Only the present moment counts, even when the subject is the past." (R. D. Brinkmann)
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
Why not recreate lost Wetlands by desalinated sea water? ... (dali48)
"Half of the money for arms should go as reparation to "flora & fauna" & UBI ,,, (dali48)e money for arms
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
see dali48 and environmental disasters & @sara_s_2020 & #Tiredearth & Manila Slum (Philippines) & Creek etc.
»Auf dem Grabstein (der Erde; d. Red.) könnte stehen: Jeder wollte das Beste – für sich.« (Siegfried Lenz)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that's why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." (@PsychologyDose_)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" ... (Osho)
"Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there" ... (Osho)
"Silence is the way, that will bring you a new dawn, a new explosion of light, an overwhelming dance, - a dance in which the stars and the trees and the ocean will be your partners. The whole existence will be your music." (Osho)
"Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
see
see dali48 and nervous breakdown & psychotherapy (1 year) in Tübingen in 1974 and the ontogenetic & phyloggenetic unconscious etc.
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population" …
Spelt helps: fatigue, loss of energy, heart problems etc. (St Hilda)
Quicumque autem invenit lucem, invenit thesaurum ... But whoever finds the light finds the treasure ....(Latin proverb)
@dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups, from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & "The already uninhabitable Earth. Today (3.7.23), Zabol in Iran recorded the highest temperature on Earth at 49.6C" (@PGDynes), see e.g. https://aljazeera.com/news/2023/6/30/out-of-time-temperature-records-topple-around-the-world, & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of clean air (see e.g. Shanghai Air etc.) & enough drinking water (see desalination of sea water since ca. 2000), enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy since the 70s & UBI since 2008 ("Banking Crisis") & biodiversity & health & no inflation, wars etc.
see dali48 & Heatwaves in #Europe, see #IPCC #ClimateReport, see #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , cold spells, #heatwave #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, #Wildfires in US & Canada, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of inflation and war etc. War crimes, see e.g. Ukraine etc. - and environmental crimes, see e.g. Kuwait, 50 million tires burn etc. - should be documented & punished by the UNO etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)