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12.02.1999 - Interpretation of dali48
Sam Keen points out that Zen masters needed years to recognize - what every child knows by nature, the absolute incarnation of sleeping when one is tired, and eating when one is hungry... (J. Bradshaw)
The instinctive life is controlled by the most primitive part of the brain - It is about eating, sleeping, the sense of touch, the excreting functions and about sensuality, physical pleasure (sex) and pain... - The child feels what the mother feels ... - Erich Fromm has described how a child whose mother has a life-threatening attitude will later live her life - which is mainly related to the instinctual life of the body... - If, on the other hand, the child is ashamed in an inappropriate way, this bridge breaks (see maternal attachment, etc. - d.48), which later leads to a pathological relationship to food, drugs, sex, etc... - If the mother does not have sufficient contact with her own body, she can not provide the child with the bond, which gives it self-confidence for its own instincts - The child can not relax on her body and later on its own body... (Marion Woodman)
You can only heal what you feel - It's strange, but the worse you've been treated, the more intense you have believed - to be bad, and have idealized your parents... - Of all the people you know, you are the only one you will never leave or lose... - I did not know that I was just the little boy with the broken heart - The grief over the loss of his father... - and his mother... - his family and his childhood... - But both the acting and the projection are not a permanent solution - My compulsion (the problem of a child who is injured in the depths) was not finished when I had ceased to drink etc. - I exchanged a compulsion simply against another:
I began to work compulsively... - The suppression of fear, sadness, and anger leads us to no longer feel also feelings like joy, interest and curiosity - In the neurotic family a commandment is valid:
Thou shalt not feel! - The injured child in you could not even know what it felt - Another commandment of the disturbed family is:
Thou shalt not talk about it! - After that the expressing of feelings is forbidden... - Without feelings everything is meaningless - With feelings, everything can have a meaning... - We believe that a cure of forced neuroses or addictive diseases is possible only through emotional work... - As a result, the child (and the adult) is ashamed every time the injured child in him needs something - Most of my adult life I was ashamed when I needed help - And no matter how favorable the situation is, such a person is ashamed also - if he behaves sexually... (J. Bradshaw)
Sam Keen (born 1931) is an American author, professor, and philosopher who is best known for his exploration of questions regarding love, life, wonder, religion ...
John Elliot Bradshaw (June 29, 1933 – May 8, 2016) was an American educator, counselor, motivational speaker, and author who hosted a number of PBS ...
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