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09.11.2019 - Diane Vaughan and love relations and hopes and fears etc...


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21.02.1999 - Interpretation of dali48

This fixation of the initiator to the negative qualities of the other is the reversal of the mysterious process that takes place when we feel attracted to a human being... - From our growing sense of dissatisfaction, we make the weaknesses of the partner even greater than they are... - I believe that mental infidelity has much more serious consequences for the relationship than sexual side-jumps... - If the initiator finds the joint search for new solutions to be too difficult (or in vain), he may decide to change independently... - Perhaps there will be no changes - and the partners still stay together... - We all have secrets in our love relations... - We conceal so many things from our partners, our everyday experiences, our past relationships, our true feelings about sex, our relationship with friends and relatives of the other, or even money matters, and we also conceal our innermost hopes and fears, whether they concern our work, health, love life or future... - Why do we endure in unhappy relationships? - Because commitment is a moral value for us, because we feel bound by marriage, because we do not want to hurt the partner, because we are afraid to find nothing better, because we believe in our positive forces, to change things to the good (see "happy-end" etc. - d.48), because we are not people who simply throw everything away because a separation would cost money, time, energy, friendships, and this price is too high for us - because we have children, because we do not want to hurt our parents because we believe in "God"... - In fact, among the people I interviewed, there was not one who had not been attacked once more by sadness and the feeling of loss in an attempt to present the event in chronological order, regardless of how much time had elapsed since then... - I believe that relationships are fundamentally dynamic and that not stability but change is their normal condition...
30.01.1948 - At the beginning of his prayer hour, M. Gandhi succumbed to a murder of the radical Hindu party... - which saw him as a traitor to Hinduism... (D. Vaughan)

Diane Vaughan is an American sociologist and professor at Columbia University. She is known ... Vaughan received her Ph.D. in sociology from Ohio State University and is a laureate of the Public Understanding of Sociology ... Uncoupling.

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11.11.2019 - Unrelated people and independence and relationships etc...


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23.02.1999 - Interpretation of dali48

Unrelated people always dream of the ideal relationship:
As a woman, they are full of longing for the supplying father of the family - as a husband for the maternal and dependent servant... - You can not admit - that this normality is not for you... - It's like a gay man and a lesbian woman - to found a family with as many children as possible... - Unrelated people are like addicts who are always starting relationships - and immediately flee again... - They are masterful actors, beguiling seducers, and everything is just one play for them - before they return to their own ego... - Eroticism in the relationship between the unrelated and the perpetrator / victim - is usually presented as a collection of disappointments... - When victims expect to be "taken" - and perpetrators like to "take", so unrelated people do not want any of the two... - Basically, they are onanists - and are fond of a porno... - Unrelated people who live together with perpetrators or victims - are professional refugees... - As closeness becomes unbearable for them - and they have too little interest in their partners to change them - there is nothing but the flight... - Unrelated people cling to objects - and less to people... - They are often more attracted by dead things by whom they are surrounded than by those people who care for them... - The unrelated people and the perpetrators / victims have only one chance - when it comes to working relationships... - In principle, however, unrelated people are irresponsible and egoistic destroyers in relation to perpetrators and victims... - Because they repel or resist the intense emotional life, their way is paved with relationship corpses - As unstable, we have identified the combination of 2 perpetrators, 2 victims, and any connection of a perpetrator or victim with a unrelated person... - Only the total unrelatedness guarantees independence - Only those who admit to nothing and nobody remain free... - Typical behavioral patterns are in the case of unrelated persons - the absence of a post-play or the non-at-partner-staying ability... - The provocation of the weak man is a special talent of the woman - Women know nothing better than the situation of the victim... - They know how this feels, thinks, acts - and guess fantasies and desires... - such a man is seductive and steerable by women - even better than by men... - Female power combined with modern technology - is an insurmountable power... - The 20th century is the beginning of the age of the female perpetrators - The female power probably belongs unfortunately to the future... (Sichrovsky / Scheer)

Sep 7, 2017 - Typical behavioral patterns are in the case of unrelated persons - the absence of a post-play or the ... to the future... (Sichrovsky / Scheer) .

Unrelated is a 2007 British drama film written and directed by Joanna Hogg, starring Kathryn ... Trying to escape her relationship worries with Alex, Anna finds herself spending ... Several people who lived and worked on the estate where filming took place also appeared in the film and are credited as themselves.

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see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...