Montag, 28. April 2025

28.04.2025 - Superficial society & 3 keys etc. / Single and independence etc. / E. Kästner & loneliness / H. N. Casson and ideals etc.

dali48 and private tuition since 8/1983, menaced since 1989, and writing diary & books & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010

dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.

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dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.




see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 
Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 
Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and UBI & ground pension since 2008 etc.

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)
May "God" bless you! - see dali48 and may the Saints & Guardian Angels bless you etc.!

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about chick shredding, and buying Free range eggs etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."
see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.
I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc
see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..
see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.
see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)
see dali48 and health and suitable shoes (see e.g. Canles etc. - d.48) & foot hygiene etc.
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia
siehe dali48 und "Wie viel Wald verliert Deutschland aktuell pro Jahr? - Die Ergebnisse sind alarmierend: Von Januar 2018 bis einschließlich April 2021 wurden in Deutschland auf rund 501.000 Hektar Fläche Baumverluste verzeichnet. Der Verlust entspricht fast fünf Prozent der gesamten Waldfläche und ist damit erheblich höher als bisher angenommen. 21.02.2022" 
see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 
siehe z.B. Air quality in Mönchengladbach etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.
siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.
see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.
see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)
see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s

see dali48 and reading about money & war, - and feeding the poor & birds etc.
In Armut lebt: Jeder 3. Student & 5. Rentner, Wer kein „Entlastungspaket“ bekommt: Studierende, Rentner ohne Grundrente, Kranke, https://pic.twitter.com/RUv88KaLbx

see dali48 & for UBI since 2008 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 & for alternative energy as e.g. wind power & solar energy and solar- 

lamp, roof, panel, cooker, window solar-foil etc. since the 70s as a student in Tübingen etc.

see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.
Bilder
diary 3: by dali48 on twitter : Dali, 48: Amazon.de: Bücher
Amazon.de: dali48: Bücher, Biographie, neuestes Aktualisierung


10.12.2000 - Interpretation of dali48 + update
They fall into physical and mental wrecks - embedded in a ruthless because superficial society - which no longer wants to know about them after they have been made to victims ... (S. Franz)
What are the 3 keys to health? - Being physically active, eating a healthy and balanced diet and getting adequate amounts of sleep are essential to long-term health and wellbeing. 
What are the 8 dimensions of life? - Wellness comprises of eight mutually co-dependence dimensions: emotional, physical, occupational, social, spiritual, intellectual, environmental, and financial. If any one of these dimensions is neglected over time, it will adversely affect one's health, well-being, and quality of life.
How to change yourself physically and mentally? - 8 Ways To Stay Physically and Mentally Healthy
  1. Get Up and Move. Physical activity does more than improve your physical health. ...
  2. Snack Wisely. ...
  3. Plan “You” Time into Your Day. ...
  4. Boost Your Immunity With Food. ...
  5. Take a Deep Breath. ...
  6. Practice Good Posture While Working. ...
  7. Prepare for a Good Night's Sleep. ...
  8. Remember That You're Not Alone.
Most of the time there are constant worries in stomach aches, digestive disorders, skin diseases and insomnia. - We feel helplessly exposed to the harming of this world! - Nevertheless, more than 10 million people between the ages of 25 and 65 live alone in Germany without a partner and family. - Singles have to pay a high price as a bit for their independence:
For their personal freedom, they have to renounce on physical and psychological sympathy (everything has its price, see Janus head, there is no light without shadow, etc. - d.48). - All singles are egoists, prefer the right to individualism, have an incapacity to a serious relationship, and rather being alone than stagnate with a partner. - The truth is probably to be found in the middle. - Women do not need men neither for the maintenance of living nor for having children. - Strokes they get by their girlfriend. - The rising lack of communication also supports the desire to be alone. - It spreads like a disease in our society. - It is so easy to be responsible only for oneself. - And so both of them go the path of least resistance. - They entrench themselves, and present themselves to humanity only when the facade is bright and freshly polished. - Perhaps we are enough for ourselves? - Finally, Jung says our soul is bisexual. - Or do we suffer from the creeping poison of emotional impoverishment? - Susan tried to numb herself after the divorce, with alcohol, tablets, other men, etc. - For fear of being hurt again, the affected ones are looking for substitutes for the missing togetherness. - A voluntarily lasting abstinence to humans can attack the psyche. - Society is shaped by the fact that we complement each other. - Through this interaction only the individual can develop properly. - In a world in which the outer appearance is more important than the being is hardly talked about loneliness. - In the age of computer, TV, etc. - we have forgotten how to talk to one another. - Whoever feels left alone loses his self-consciousness. - The grief returns to the outside and makes us unattractive ...
Why are people egoists? - According to psychological hedonism, the ultimate egoistic motive is to gain good feelings of pleasure and avoid bad feelings of pain.
What makes someone an egoist? - Egotism is defined as the drive to maintain and enhance favorable views of oneself and generally features an inflated opinion of one's personal features and importance distinguished by a person's amplified vision of one's self and self-importance.
Who is very egoistic? - Egoistic people believe we all put our own needs before those of others. If you're sure that self-interest inspires every human action — yes, even rescuing that sweet kitten from a tree — then you, my friend, are egoistic.
Why is everyone so egoistic? - When people feel insecure, they may act egoistically to cover up their feelings. Common defense mechanisms include denial and projection. An egoistic person might deny their flaws or blame others for their problems. This behavior helps them avoid feeling weak or vulnerable and protects their fragile self-esteem.
Are narcissists egoistic? - A narcissist's ego is their entire world and they can become emotionally abusive or manipulative to defend it. If a person with narcissism feels that someone is advancing on their superior status, or not giving them adequate recognition, they may engage in some negative reinforcements as punishment.
Is it okay to be an egoist? - There is nothing wrong with having an ego – there is nothing wrong with feeling important – but the ego needs to be regulated. The problems arise when it affects your decision making, your mood, or it turns you into a victim, an underdog, or it makes you feel superior to others in order to justify your behaviour.

Übersicht mit KIWeitere InformationenThe statement "Whoever feels left alone loses his self-consciousness" is inaccurate. While being alone can impact how we perceive ourselves and interact with others, it doesn't inherently eliminate self-consciousness. Self-consciousness is more about our awareness of ourselves and how we are perceived, and it's not necessarily tied to the presence or absence of others. Here's a more detailed explanation:Self-consciousness is a complex concept:It encompasses a range of emotions and thoughts about oneself, including how we perceive our appearance, behaviors, and social standing. Social interaction influences self-consciousness:While self-consciousness is an internal experience, it's often triggered or intensified by social interactions and how we perceive others' judgments. Being alone doesn't erase self-awareness:Even when alone, we can still be aware of ourselves and our own thoughts and feelings, including self-conscious emotions. Isolation can impact self-consciousness:However, extended periods of isolation can sometimes lead to decreased social awareness and a reduced ability to gauge how others perceive us, potentially altering self-consciousness in a negative way. Self-consciousness is a spectrum:People experience varying levels of self-consciousness, and it can fluctuate depending on the situation and individual factors.  
You are very lonely alone - and the worst is the loneliness together ... (E. Kästner) 
Übersicht mit KI  Weitere Informationen The feeling of loneliness can be particularly isolating, even when surrounded by people. Some find the experience of loneliness in a relationship to be more painful than being alone entirely. This can stem from a lack of emotional connection, unmet needs, or a feeling of being overlooked or unheard within the relationship. Understanding the Experience: Emotional Loneliness: While physically together, individuals might feel a disconnect and lack of emotional intimacy. This can manifest as a sense of being unheard, unvalued, or ignored.  Communication Barriers: Difficulties in communication can exacerbate loneliness in a relationship, hindering the ability to connect and understand each other's needs. Unmet Needs: If an individual's needs for companionship, support, or emotional connection are not being met, it can lead to a feeling of loneliness despite the presence of a partner. Toxic Dynamics: In some cases, a partner's behavior or the overall relationship dynamic can be toxic, creating an environment where genuine connection is difficult, even in close proximity. Seeking Help and Support: Open Communication: Encourage open and honest communication within the relationship, fostering a space where both partners can share their feelings and needs. Individual and Relationship Therapy: Seeking professional help can provide guidance in navigating communication challenges and strengthening the emotional connection within the relationship. External Support: Building a strong support network outside the relationship, through friendships or other social connections, can help reduce feelings of isolation. Self-Care: Engaging in activities that foster self-care and personal well-being can contribute to a greater sense of self-esteem and emotional resilience. 
Ideals push us away from the harshness and roughness of reality - and make life undoubtedly more beautiful. - But why do we always seek in the distance for ideals, almost never in our immediate environment? ... (H. N. Casson) 
Was ist Ideal und Realität? - 10. Juli 2023. Ideale und Realität sind zwei Konzepte, mit denen wir in unserem Leben oft konfrontiert werden. Ideale sind unsere Erwartungen und Ziele, während die Realität unsere aktuellen Umstände darstellt .10.07.2023 
Was versteht man unter einem Ideal? - Das Ideal spielt in der philosophischen Ästhetik, Ethik und in der Wissenschaftstheorie eine Rolle und ist der Inbegriff für ein Vollkommenheitsmuster. Es ist ein Ziel oder die höchste Vollkommenheit. Das Attribut „ideal“ steht für musterhaft oder vorbildlich, „ideell“ dagegen für rein gedanklich oder unwirklich. 
Was sind Ideale Beispiele? - Liebe, Sicherheit, Macht, Ordnung, Toleranz, Disziplin, Ehrlichkeit, Erfolg, Nächstenliebe, Freiheit, sinnliche Befriedigung, Gesundheit, Zuverlässigkeit, Gerechtigkeit, Selbstbestimmung, Freundschaft, Weiterentwicklung, Treue, innerer Frieden und Harmonie.22.07.2024 
Single – Wikipedia Single (von englisch single ‚einzeln') steht für: Alleinstehender, ein Mensch, der ohne feste Bindung an einen Partner oder eine Partnerin lebt; Single (Musik), ... 
Superficiality - Wikipedia The discourses in philosophy regarding social relation. What social psychologists call "the principle of superficiality versus depth" has pervaded Western culture ... Historical sketch · ‎Postmodernism · ‎Therapy · ‎In the media 

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