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12.02.1999 - Interpretation of dali48
When feelings are bound by shame, one becomes completely insensitive with time - this process is the prerequisite for every form of addiction, because only in the state of intoxication is such a person able to feel anything at all - Every addiction offers an opportunity for a man to have pleasant feelings or to avoid unpleasant ones - The mental injury caused by the sick shame breaks the self - One is made small before oneself and in ones own eyes an object of contempt - Every time a person who is deformed has his own true emotions, he is ashamed - and to avoid this pain, he stuns himself...
Splitting: "I can not remember what happened"...
Conversion: "If I have the feeling that something like that happens, I eat or have sex"...
Adult children have a certain way of avoiding true suffering:
They remain in their minds by concentrating on things in an obsessed way, analyzing everything, constantly discussing and reading, and they waste a lot of energy trying to get to the bottom of everything - Without pain, no success (see 12 steps-Program). If the child has been hurt in you, this phase (39-52 years) can take catastrophic forms... - We move from the illusion of certainty - to the certainty of the illusion... (S. Keen)
When we are ready to trust... - we have to make new choices:
Work, relationships, spirituality etc...
Sick shame:
"I can cause chronic pain that never subsides. The pain I am causing you is so intolerable that you have to pass it on to others:
by control, perfectionism, contempt, criticism, blame, envy, condemnation, power and anger...
The pain is so intense that one must cover it with addictions, rigid roles, repetition forces, and unconscious defense mechanisms...
Sick shame:
transforms what you are into what you are doing and what you have ("Ahasver, the eternal Jew," Wagner's Flying Dutchman, Dostoyevsky's man in the underground, Kierkegaard's deceiver, Goethe's Faust, etc )...
The sick shame murders the soul - and is passed on from one generation to the next...
The divine child was abandoned - and is all alone...
As Alice Miller writes in "In the Beginning was Education," it is worse off than someone who has survived a concentration camp... - The ill-treated prisoner of a concentration camp is internally free - to hate his pursuers... - He does not have to give his own self away - A child does not stand before the hated - but before the beloved persecutor. The child suffers either passively - or is aggressive, acts, suppresses everything, projects etc... - As a child of poor people, I am still unsettled - when I enter a club or go to some other noble local... (J. Bradshaw)
Shame is an unpleasant self-conscious emotion typically associated with a negative evaluation ... A "sense of shame" is the feeling known as guilt but "
Missing: Keen bound
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. Jump to navigation Jump to search. John Elliot Bradshaw (June 29, 1933 – May 8, 2016) was an American educator, counselor, ... of his peers as "One Of The 100 Most Influential Writers On Emotional Health in the 20th Century." ... Bradshaw On: Healing the Shame that Binds You.
Humiliations, spankings and beatings, slaps in the face, betrayal, sexual exploitation, derision, neglect, etc. are all forms of mistreatment, because they injure the integrity and dignity of a child, even if their consequences are not visible right away.
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see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...
see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see E. Kuebler-Ross and R. Moody and Near Death Experiences - and my own experiences in the 80s and 12/2011 etc... (dali48)
see our planet and environment and deforestation and climate change and pollution and destructive traffic everywhere - instead of #ZeroHunger, UBI and surviving etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and world view 1968 etc. - compared with 1989 and 2008 etc...
Deposit on plastic & better recycling & cleaning, see e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org & biodegradable "plastic" bags - instead of polluting rivers & lakes & sea with waste etc... (dali48)
Concerning overfishing & polluting & damaging the oceans with garbage patches & ‘dead zones’ etc. - instead of e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org, see Golding & "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey" etc... (dali48)
Concerning overfishing & polluting & damaging the oceans with garbage patches & ‘dead zones’ etc. - instead of e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org, see Golding & "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey" etc... (dali48)
see @UNrightswire, see Human Rights & Clean Air & Drinking Water & Food & UBI - instead of destructive traffic, e.g. @BeijingAir & privatisation of drinking water & other violations etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and reading and writing and walking and cycling and photographing - and without car since 2004 etc...
Why bees etc. - are dying by the billions see pesticides and #Neonics http://bit.ly/1vJ6vI6 = 5000 times more toxic to bees than DDT etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and Human Rights (1948), warning of neo-fascism since 1989, and of Climate Change, and for Net Neutrality & Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI instead of HartzIV, and against rental usury, lobby donations since 2008, and against 80 000 Millions for arms...
see Ban of Basic Rights & Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of democratic control of #Polizeigesetz and introducing a UBI etc... (dali48)
see Ban of Basic Rights & Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of democratic control of #Polizeigesetz and introducing a UBI etc... (dali48)
see National Socialist tyranny and History produced evil - as Bees produced honey etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989, of Climate Change, and for Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI since 2008... Why is there no Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Hartz IV and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and neo-fascism etc.? (dali48)
Steven David Horwich @homeschoolcurr Want to ban homeschool? So did the Nazis. Read about it at bit.ly/lZkLNv... Retweeted by dali48
siehe dali48 und "Petition unterschreiben Bundesrat: AFD nach Artikel 21 GG verbieten lassen... change.org"
see dali48 and deforestation and Climate and species extinction by pesticides, leaf blowers etc. - and Human Rights violations instead of Biodiversity and UBI etc...
see beautiful wildflower havens and UBI - instead of tax havens and violations of Human Rights etc... (dali48)
see Con Gen ShanghaiAir @CGShanghaiAir 07-08-2019 16:00; PM2.5; 69.0; 158; Unhealthy (at 24-hour exposure at this level)...
01-15-2019 18:00; PM2.5; 37.0; 105; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)
see dali48 and "Those who will exclude any of God's creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity (see e.g. chick shredding etc.) - will deal likewise with their fellow man." (Francis of Assisi)
Concerning chick shredding, see St Francis and animals - see IB Singer and Treblinka - see Albert Schweitzer Foundation for our world around etc... (dali48)
Concerning chick shredding, see St Francis and animals - see IB Singer and Treblinka - see Albert Schweitzer Foundation for our world around etc... (dali48)
see bumble bees and bees again on lavender during my daily walk in the park since June 2018 etc... (dali48)
Marc Rufer etc...
and fresh water etc. - see seagulls from the coast of the Netherlands coming for fodder in winter - see "Flora and Fauna" since ca.2000 etc...
"Where they ban private tuition and books - they also ban teachers and authors at the end" ... (dali48, 2019)
see dali48 and why don't these millionaires unite - and pay a smallest UBI to many of the poorest of people?
henk tennekes
Das grosse Neonics Desaster. Seit 1995 sind bis zu 80 Prozent der Biomasse aller Fluginsekten in NRW verschwunden http://www.farmlandbirds.net/de/content/innerhalb-der-vergangenen-20-jahre-sind-bis-zu-80-prozent-der-biomasse-aller-fluginsekten-no …
Concerning road traffic: Urban areas must be safer for pedestrians and cyclists etc... (dali48)
etc... (dali48)
see Ban of Basic Rights and Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of saving the Internet and introducing UBI etc. (dali48, 2019)
see dali48 and Deforestation and Climate Change and #ExtinctionRebelion and Human Rights violations instead of UBI etc...
see dali48 and The majority of diseases that plague humanity are all rooted in a polluted environment (see e.g. Roundup, Glyphosat etc. - d.48)... (Change.org)
Concerning the dying of the bees etc. - see neonics etc.- "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey"... (dali48)
siehe 19.07.2019 - Torben Schiffer und Bienenforschung und zurück zur Natur, see https://beenature-project.com/de etc... (dali48)
Concerning deforestation & polluting rivers & burning forests etc. - instead of a monthly UBI - uncontrolled Capitalism produces evil as bees produce honey... (dali48)
see dali48 and reading and writing about the Nobel Prize in Literature from 1957 Albert Camus to 2017 Kazuo Ishiguro etc...
see dali48 and bread and UBI - instead of fireworks etc...
Concerning road traffic: Urban areas must be safer for pedestrians and cyclists etc... (dali48)
etc... (dali48)
see Ban of Basic Rights and Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of saving the Internet and introducing UBI etc. (dali48, 2019)
Apr 14
On the train to the EU Parliament, the Italian Senate, the Vatican and House of Parliament during the Easter holiday. And on Friday I’ll participate in the school strike in Rome. I know it’s a holiday but since the climate crisis doesn’t go on vacation nor will we. #Climatestrikesee dali48 and Deforestation and Climate Change and #ExtinctionRebelion and Human Rights violations instead of UBI etc...
see dali48 and The majority of diseases that plague humanity are all rooted in a polluted environment (see e.g. Roundup, Glyphosat etc. - d.48)... (Change.org)
Concerning the dying of the bees etc. - see neonics etc.- "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey"... (dali48)
siehe 19.07.2019 - Torben Schiffer und Bienenforschung und zurück zur Natur, see https://beenature-project.com/de etc... (dali48)
Concerning deforestation & polluting rivers & burning forests etc. - instead of a monthly UBI - uncontrolled Capitalism produces evil as bees produce honey... (dali48)
see dali48 and reading and writing about the Nobel Prize in Literature from 1957 Albert Camus to 2017 Kazuo Ishiguro etc...
see dali48 and bread and UBI - instead of fireworks etc...
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