dali48 and private tuition and writing diaries & books and photographing in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 11.04.2000 – Interpretation of dali48
We must consider - the rhythm of life of others. We need harmony - a certain sense of togetherness. Without this, no human coexistence is possible...
But this feeling of togetherness often breaks down in the first moment in itself - because the individual does not live in accordance with himself, and his own rhythm of life. The world and we (the outside and the inside, etc. - d.48) are one and the same. There is absolutely no difference. There is no other task than to create inner harmony - so create love after all, emotional independence, satisfaction with ourselves, with the person who we are...
The harmony is not based on longing for love and recognition. On the contrary, we give recognition and love. This is so simple and it works...
Wrong strategies to cope with suffering:
1 Run away - because the trouble is in the heart and thus is everywhere...
2 Make others responsible for it (see scapegoat syndrome, etc. – d.48)…
3 Be depressed…
The only two causes of suffering is the craving to want to have something - or to want to get rid of something which we do not want. Desires and sufferings - are interdependent…
The result is: you must let go desires - in order to have not to suffer... (A. Khema)
So my belief applies as well to the psychiatric diagnostic methodology - that the feeling can be much more sensitive than the mind sharp... (V. Frankl)
Unemployment rose, the environmental damage from the construction times have been overlooked - environmental disasters and wars contradicted the "feel good" as a lifestyle. Many psychiatrists see this incompatibility of individual needs and objectives on the one hand - and the real conditions of life on the other hand as the reason for more and more depressive disorders... (Glaeske / Günther / Keller)
The question is not: "Why do I suffer? - But what for?"
Just today, where fears about the future and identity crisis among young people - and not only among them - are as sharp as may never before... (Image of Science)
Experiment in a canton in Switzerland (1981): 1 year, no report on suicides in the media (TV, newspaper, radio, etc. - d.48) - the suicide rate fell by 90% (i.e. for me: the television, etc. is tempting especially children and young people - to be imitated - it follows to show as little as possible destructive messages – and showing instead constructive literature, biographies, diaries and films, etc. - d.48)...
Thoughts, feelings and fantasies are judged and condemned as if they are acts. This Pauline equation - that thinking is as bad as the action that the boundary between inside and outside is lifted in ethical judgments has the most devastating psychological consequences - Exactly this is also one of the premises of totalitarianism... When I look at Augustin (see the harpist, Wilhelm Meister's Apprenticeship), who has plunged into debt as a clumsy child - it is the same with me, as if this debt has rubbed off that it has transferred from the father. He parried it - and charged his children...
The inevitability of becoming guilty under the terror pressure of ruthless, cruel parents reminds me of the perfidy of totalitarian dictators - the tormentor uses fancy tricks to let become the victims of abuse themselves guilty to give them only the choice between two evils - you save your life - and your family or friends are condemned to death. No one who survived the dictatorship is without blame... So it was with all the injuries. Each accident was punishable as a crime, and no one gave solace in pain - Of this it comes the suppression of all feelings, all the weaknesses... (L. Wurmser)
If you cannot be who you are, and no one is really there for you - then feelings, needs or desires are not o.k. - Pain is a vehicle for growth and a wise teacher. - Without pain, the heart is hollow. The deeper the sorrow cuts into your being - the more joy you can feel...
Checklist of adult children in emotionally violent families: fears of abandonment, repression and deception, undifferentiated emotions, loneliness and isolation, disorder of thought, forced behavior and addiction, a high degree of uncertainty, intimacy problems, loss of emotion and energy... Undifferentiated emotions: you never know exactly what you feel - you do not know how to bring your emotions to express... (J. Bradshaw)
All our businesses in the area of friendship and love, marriage and partnership make a real effort to remove this feeling of inadequacy and incompleteness - But we will never completely succeed and if so, then only a short duration... Man is bound by a set of desires and longings of the earth.- If he wants to embark on the search, then he sees that all the sweet desires, will be ending in sour captivity (see "a short heaven & a long hell" etc. - d.48) and that he must break away from them, if he wants to escape the misery of a divided self... (P. Brunton)
Golden Snow “To gain rhythm in life is not always an easy task ... depending on your upbringing ... childhood can leave so many scares ... ways of life are a mystery to most ... including myself ... to find a balance in ones life after abuse can be hard, even old sores that have healed can be bothersome at times ... I have followed you for a year dali48 ... things are changing for me ... I see things differently and life is becoming peaceful and easier to live ... thank you”...
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
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dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
21.06.2023 - I didn't see a butterfly yet in Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
Psychology says, Trust your intuition. It never lies.
see dali48 & FGYO / SIT, language teacher, 1975/76 in Tübingen and Lenzkirch (Black Forest), and wandering in the morning, and in Erkrath (8/1983-5/2010) cooking houseman and teaching in the afternoon, on Saturdays & compact courses during holidays etc.
see dali48 and walking and cycling etc. - and without own car in Erkrath since 2004 - and without driving in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
"It takes few words to express the essential" - Paul Éluard
"One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." ... (H. Miller)
"The past is pain, the future uncertainty. The present is all we have" ... (Tao Wong)
„Wer immer die Wahrheit sagt, kann sich ein schlechtes Gedächtnis leisten.“ (F. Sulzer
)
"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." (F. Kafka)
see dali48 and bees and CCD and neonics since ca. 2000 etc.
In "love" are the beginning and the climax - the most beautiful periods etc... (dali48)
"Time spent with cats is never wasted." (S. Freud)
Why not use bio-methane, hydrogen, bio heating oil, e-heating oil - instead of banning oil and gas heating etc. (dali48)
"Only the present moment counts, even when the subject is the past." (R. D. Brinkmann)
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
Why not recreate lost Wetlands by desalinated sea water? ... (dali48)
"Half of the money for arms should go as reparation to "flora & fauna" & UBI ,,, (dali48)e money for arms
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
see dali48 and environmental disasters & @sara_s_2020 & #Tiredearth & Manila Slum (Philippines) & Creek etc.
»Auf dem Grabstein (der Erde; d. Red.) könnte stehen: Jeder wollte das Beste – für sich.« (Siegfried Lenz)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that"s why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." (@PsychologyDose_)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" ... (Osho)
"Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there" ... (Osho)
"Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
see
see dali48 and nervous breakdown & psychotherapy (1 year) in Tübingen in 1974 and the ontogenetic & phyloggenetic unconscious etc.
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population" …
Spelt helps: fatigue, loss of energy, heart problems etc. (St Hilda)
@dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups, from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
Deutsch Ausgabe | von 48 Dali | 28. Dezember 2009
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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & "The already uninhabitable Earth. Today (3.7.23), Zabol in Iran recorded the highest temperature on Earth at 49.6C" (@PGDynes), see e.g. https://aljazeera.com/news/2023/6/30/out-of-time-temperature-records-topple-around-the-world, & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of clean air (see e.g. Shanghai Air etc.) & enough drinking water (see desalination of sea water since ca. 2000), enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy since the 70s & UBI since 2008 ("Banking Crisis") & biodiversity & health & no inflation, wars etc..
see dali48 & Heatwaves in #Europe, see #IPCC #ClimateReport, see #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , cold spells, #heatwave #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, #Wildfires in US & Canada, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of inflation and war etc. War crimes, see e.g. Ukraine etc. - and environmental crimes, see e.g. Kuwait, 50 million tires burn etc. - should be documented & punished by the UNO etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)