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11.07.2018 - The Snow Dance Part 97 by Golden Snow


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Part 97... by Golden Snow

It was a time of frustration in my life but also a breakthrough had come. The light was shining brighter but I was not reaching far enough to free myself from the inner calling for freedom. I needed to find a place of letting go of all the bitterness, and the hurt, that was holding me back, to feel the space that was mine alone. So many disappointments pile up in one's life, so many things I wish I had or I wish I hadn't done, come to mind. Well I wish I hadn't made the decision I made that day. I needed time to just stop and be me. I had just terminated one relationship, and the last thing I needed was another one so soon.

We need help at times to regain our balance but must realize that fast decisions are regretted most of the time. What we think that we need when accepting help is not necessarily the right choice. We have to see and listen to our inner voice, the one that knows what is best. Seeking a quiet time to reflect on our feelings, what do we really want... what do we really need.

Our recovery from abuse of any kind comes from our own deep and spiritual self, and no one can do this for us. The feelings of “how could someone possibly love me” have to be resolved. Thinking we are unlovable can sabotage our life, and thinking we do not deserve the best we might have and most times do, abandons and neglects our own personal happiness. We put other's feeling before our own. I do not want to hurt them because they have been so good to me. This lack of respect for ourselves leads to many breakings of our heart. I have to repeat that “we need time“, time to improve our relationship with ourselves, and learn to love ourselves. I also just learned to love myself. Sometimes it takes someone who has gone through this in their life to bring this amazing yet simple fact to our attention. When we have achieved this fact we begin to love life. We can set boundaries with our guilt. We deserve the best life has to offer. We do not have to settle for anything in between...

Golden Snow
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