Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema)
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha)
„Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll)
see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis, St Martin etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)
01.05.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
The more blame you put on your partner - the less responsibility will be taken! If you show yourself vulnerable, your partner can also allow that. - I feel no longer safe in my own body. - Do you understand what a crazy feeling that is? - In a time when your feelings are agitated, your self-esteem is traumatized and your partnership is broken, you must learn the signs of escalating violence and stop before your confrontation gets out of control. - Do not drink and argue at the same time: alcohol reinforces only your hostility. Do not threaten with divorce! - Your partnership is too fragile to be able to withstand this intimidation. - It is important to stop the dispute at the same time and continue at a new time so that the partner who is reacting, does not feel strangled. - If, for example, you felt misunderstood as a child, then you will suppress your needs and ensure that your partner does not understand you. If you have not experienced any support, you shout now and make sure that your partner does not listen. - What do you need from me to make you feel loved and cared for? - What is missing in our partnership? - What touches do you like? ... (Abrams / Spring)
The following outline is provided as an overview of and topical guide to interpersonal .... Monogamy — having a single long-term sexual partner or marriage to one ... Its most important tenet is that an infant needs to develop a relationship with at ... relationships, typically involving heightened emotional and sexual receptivity ...
see dali48 and reading & writing about Psychology & Psychiatry and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, E. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum, J. Murphy, S. Steinbrecher, E. Kübler-Ross, R. A. Moody, K. Ring, I. D. Suttie, E. Jacobson, S. Forward, H. Gastager, C. M. Steiner, W. G. Niederland, R. Funk, N. Schwartz-Salant, A. Janov, A. & M. Mitscherlich, H. König etc.
