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22.07.2019 - Williams and decisions and norms and criticism etc...


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18.02.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

Sometimes decisions are made without thought of the long-term consequences - Too much alcohol or accidental sex, which one repented the next morning, are more examples - Or you decide to leave school in favor of a job and of an income rather than the long-term benefits of higher education - Perhaps you spend unnecessary money on spontaneous pleasure without thinking about your long-term security...
If the others do not like what you do, it is not because they are "wrong," but simply because you live or behave in a way that the others find unacceptable - If someone criticizes you, he only tells you what preferences, desires and norms he has - Create your own norms and stick to it - Then you can see the criticism of other people quite simply as their way to tell you what they do differently - and the way your way is different from theirs - In the awareness that your path is different, they can live quite relaxed - Those who only hear praise and never criticism, only experience half-truths of their friends, whom one can not really trust that they are honest - It is much easier if you can give up the notion of right and wrong - Right and wrong are often a reflection of a particular culture or even the conception of a certain person - In an American study it was found that toddlers approx. 450 times a day (approx. 90%) are criticized or scolded - and hear less than 40 times (about 10%) praise...
Reaction to criticism:
1. This is an interesting view - I will think about it...
2. Would you like to hear my opinion?
It is very important that you understand from the outset that if someone dies or leaves you that you mourn yourself and not the other - You mourn for your loss, for the pain you are going through, and for the void - which is created by the absence of that person in your life...
Do your best and be willing to accept yourself as you are - Don't you do so, you will  deliberately create grief - It is sad but true that we often tolerate the weaknesses and mistakes of other people better than our own... (X.Williams)

Criticism is the practice of judging the merits and faults of something. Crítica, engraving by Julio ..... The nasty response may "prove" to the critics, that the criticism was justified, but the critics have brought this on themselves, they have produced ...


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22.07.2019 - Williams and pain prevention and depression (MDD) and health etc...


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16.02.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

The motivation through pain prevention works well when it comes to avoiding a catastrophe - Is this your only method of motivation - you will probably have much stress and depression in your life...
It may not be easy to see that you are holding on to your depression, or that you lack the courage to make changes, and you prefer an unhappy present to an uncertain or difficult future - But if you can accept that and learn from it, your life will also continue - As we have seen, unhappiness offers many advantages - as well as understanding and attention, and it offers consolation and the certainty of knowing that you have little to lose - Be brave, take the risk, be ready to be happy! - It is a sad truth that the threat of fear and loss motivate the majority of the people better than to hold the carrots named profit and advantage before their noses - Most people insure themselves before they risk their money - It is more likely to work harder and work better if they fear the termination rather than hope of a salary increase - Perhaps you are afraid that the others will expect more from you if you are happy - Others might expect that you give more of yourself, share with others, and sacrifice your time - Show willingness to take the risk! - You will almost surely find that the more fortunate you are to be yourself, and the more you are expected to be, the more will return to you and give you all the more...
How badly your health is ordered, others are even more unhappy - No matter how little material possessions you call your own - others have even less...
Perhaps your mission in life is to be discouraged, to experience the negative side and the depressive range of feelings - Depression can also mean that you appreciate it all the more when you are happy again - No one has automatically a right to happiness, we all have to create and deserve it... (X. Williams)

Major depressive disorder (MDD), also known simply as depression, is a mental disorder .... One or more pain symptoms are present in 65% of depressed patients, and anywhere from 5 to 85% of patients ..... and prevention of depression (both for its adaptability to various populations and its results), with a risk reduction of ...



05.10.2015 - Autoreninterview.doc -  see dali48 on Google,Blogspot,Bod.de,StumbleUpon,Pinterest,Twitter,Goodreads...



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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...