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24.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48 

If our relationships get off... - we all tend to blame our partners or associates for...
We all have to protect ourselves... - and maintain our emotional and physical... - until we know – not hope that things will go well...
Some of us are so hungry for... - that they give too much too... - We open our hearts, our doors, our fridge and sometimes even our... - We hardly set boundaries and keep back little or... - We let new people too quickly in our... - We don’t protect ourselves... - We give more than is required of... - We risk too much in the name of...
If you are changing for the... - your relationships will also be...
The patients get the intense, delusional... - that the sub-personalities are separate... - It is a therapeutic balancing... - to accept Dissociative Defense... - on the one hand as a survival... - on the other, to teach that all sub-personalities belong to a single... - and that this is a shared… (P. Lambert)

Such patients have experienced the worst... - of relationship from early... - and have therefore great difficulties to engage in a trusting... - They grew up in a family system with extreme... - and arbitrariness of experience - They had no way to a feeling of self-determination or develop... - Permanent transgressions were... - and are internalized as a relationship... 

When we made too many negative... - we lose the courage to... (S. Carter / J. Sokol)

Dissociation is any of a wide array of experiences from mild detachment from immediate .... Psychological defense mechanisms belong to Freud's theory of ...
Missing: Survival

In self-help literature, fear of commitment is the avoidance of long-term partnership or marriage. ... Steven A. Carter & Julia Sokol (1987). Men Who Can't Love.


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