Dienstag, 4. März 2025

04.03.2025 - Fears and Sleep disorders & Fragmented sleep etc. / Dreams and REM and Insomnia & Valerian etc.

dali48 and private teaching since 8/1983, menaced since 1989, and writing diary & books & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010

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dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.




see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 
Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 
Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."
see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.
I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc
see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..
see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.
see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)
see dali48 and health and suitable shoes & foot hygiene etc.
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.
siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.
see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.
see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)
see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s
see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.
Bilder
diary 3: by dali48 on twitter : Dali, 48: Amazon.de: Bücher
Amazon.de: dali48: Bücher, Biographie, neuestes Aktualisierung

03/16/2000 – Interpretation of dali48 + update
Fear means guilt, illness, job stress, financial problems, marital strife, sadness, pointlessness of life, anger and shame, etc. - and can lead to sleep disorders! - It helps (see e.g. my blog, 15.03.2000 etc. - d.48)! ... 
Repentance: "Doctor had I only listened to you!" (see e.g. alcohol, cigarettes etc. - d.48) but it is usually too late! ...
Offensive odor is a terrible psychological burden for people! - The human nose is very capable as a receptor for substances against insomnia (see e.g. valerian, lemon balm, etc., - and what about car exhaust fumes etc.? - d.48)! ...
In his dream, man pursues by his eyes of what he sees in a dream, so it comes to eye movements under the eyelids. - Animals have an even greater proportion of Dreams and REM sleep periods than humans (about 33 - 50% etc. - d.48) with regard to total sleep time! ... 
Dreams provide information on unconscious fears and desires. - Dreams temporarily solve conflicts that people would make sleepless. - They are a self protection of the dreamer. - Those who dream a lot, are doing well due to the valve effect of dreams. - The dreamer is thus not so much burdened by “congestion of the instincts!” ...
For the widespread inability to cope with the life issues of our time, the refreshing sleep is the best remedy and treatment! - For help insomnia: a cup of warm milk with 1 teaspoon honey and / or tryptophan (see e.g. St. John's wort, valerian, melatonin, etc. - d.48)! ...
Sleep is not everything, but everything is nothing without sleep! - There is no disadvantage to sleep through half of life! - The other half can thus be valuable and intensely lived and enjoyed! - The rhythm imposed on our people, eight hours of physical and mental work and performance (see e.g. 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. in winter, and 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. in summer etc. - d.48), eight hours rest and after work, eight hours of sleep and thus recovery is an old rule of thumb, - and we are subject to this rule! ... (M. Bajog) 
sleep disorder, or somnipathy, is a medical disorder affecting an individual's sleep patterns, sometimes impacting physical, mental, social, and emotional .
Can lack of sleep make you mentally ill? - Sleep deficiency has also been linked to depression, suicide, and risk-taking behavior. Children and teens who are sleep deficient may have problems getting along with others. They may feel angry and impulsive, have mood swings, feel sad or depressed, or lack motivation.15.06.2022
Can insomnia be cured? - There is no cure for insomnia. But if you live with chronic insomnia, your physician can help you find ways to cope with it and improve your sleeping situation.
Why do I wake up every 2 hours? - Obstructive sleep apnea, periodic limb movements (leg jerks), iron deficiency, hyperthyroidism, gastroesophageal reflux, pain, allergies, asthma, hormonal changes, anxiety, depression and certain medications are some of the main contributors to fragmented sleep.03.02.2023
see dali48 and reading & writing about Psychology & Psychiatry and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, W. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum, J. Murphy, S. Steinbrecher, E. Kübler-Ross, R. A. Moody, K. Ring, I. D. Suttie, E. Jacobson, S. Forward, H. Gastager, C. M. Steiner, W. G. Niederland, R. Funk, N. Schwartz-Salant, A. Janov, A. & M. Mitscherlich, H. König, W. Hollstein etc. 

04.03.2025 - Ayya Khema & truth & irritation & life etc. / Child betrayed & trauma etc. / Narcissistic wound & signs & habits & non-listening etc.

dali48 and visiting and photographing near spa house in Baden-Baden, 8/2010

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dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.




see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 
Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 
Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."
see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.
I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc
see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..
see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.
see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)
see dali48 and health and suitable shoes & foot hygiene etc.
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.
siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.
see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.
see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)
see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s
see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.
Bilder
diary 3: by dali48 on twitter : Dali, 48: Amazon.de: Bücher
Amazon.de: dali48: Bücher, Biographie, neuestes Aktualisierung
 
07/15/2010 - Interpretation of dali48
But our actions have consequences! - We must therefore remind us of our deeds, our wholesome actions if we truly want to appreciate ourselves! ... (Ayya Khema)

Let to this end, something go away for a moment, of which you think that you deserve it, e.g. such as something that you do like, anything that you like or think is important! - Examine it again and again until you realize how fleeting it is! - Then you will say to you someday: "I do not need it at all. - I can do without it." - This is the moment of truth! ... 
Permanent irritation: 
We are constantly under fire of all those things and phenomena which we 1st hear, 2nd see, 3rd smell, 4th taste, 5th touch, and 6th think! ...
Every moment Buddha could clearly see the suffering of all beings - because they seek and adhere! ...
Luck is no accident! - Nor is it dependent on external conditions! - And peace is not a piece of paper, no contract work, which the UN could sign! - Peace is always a state of being, an inner life which is based on letting go, on renunciation! ...
We need not worry about what might happen to us after death! - Better we take care of the now and the moment of death. - We can start with something, because it is accessible to us, no intangible idea like all ideas that have grown up around the life after death. - But we can only learn if we give up  everything, one after another. -Every day a little thing! ...
Only if we learn something, we have used the day for the cause, for which it has been given to us. - The eruption of wisdom (see knowledge & understanding etc. - d.48), which is the only sense of our lives. - Each day is our whole life (from sunrise to sunset etc. – d.48)! ... (Ayya Khema)

Ayya Khema war eine buddhistische Nonne in der Theravada-Tradition. Wikipedia

Betrayal: The child was abused by betraying and exploiting its addiction, its vulnerability and trust! - This can lead to many disorders of interpersonal relations, especially with deep suspicion, to anger, hostility and depression! ... (A. Eckhardt)
Is betrayal trauma emotional abuse? - Betrayal trauma is almost universally experienced when there is a violation of trust in an intimate or close relationship. The most common example occurs with infidelity, but this trauma can result from betrayals of any kind – including interpersonal violence, lying, or emotional abuse.01.09.2024
What does betrayal trauma do to the brain? - Research shows that a person who is betrayed frequently experience symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, and anxiety. These aren't just temporary emotional reactions - they're significant psychological responses that can affect daily functioning.09.12.2024
Narcissistic wound: perverse fantasies, lack of sexual interest, work inhibitions, inability to take meaningful relationships and maintain them, delinquent behavior, lack of humor, no empathy for the feelings and needs of others, for the right proportions, uncontrolled rages, Pseudologie, hypochondriacal narrowing to physical and mental health, vegetative disorders! ... (K. Asper)

see dali48 and reading & writing about Psychology & Psychiatry and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, W. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum, J. Murphy, S. Steinbrecher, E. Kübler-Ross, R. A. Moody, K. Ring, I. D. Suttie, E. Jacobson, S. Forward, H. Gastager, C. M. Steiner, W. G. Niederland, R. Funk, N. Schwartz-Salant, A. Janov, A. & M. Mitscherlich, H. König, W. Hollstein etc. 

How to spot the signs of a covert narcissist
  1. Superficial charm.
  2. Attention-seeking.
  3. Lack of reliability.
  4. Manipulation.
  5. The propensity to break peoples' boundaries.
  6. Inflated sense of self-importance and self-centered.
  7. An exaggerated sense of self.
09.09.2021
What are the five main habits of a narcissist? - Diagnosing narcissistic personality disorder
  • Grandiose sense of self-importance.
  • Fixation on fantasies of success or power.
  • Excessive need for admiration.
  • Sense of entitlement.
  • Belief that they are “special” or superior.
  • Exploitative in relationships.
  • Envious or believing others are envious of them.
Habitual Non-ListeningHabitual Non-listening. Narcissism is manifested in communication patterns that include habitual non-listening. Narcissists tend to do lots of talking and very little listening. The narcissist knows best, after all, so why bother listening to what others have to say?14.11.2024