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But if you expect you to be loved only for your own sake, and feel shabby and disguised, if that is not so, then you have unrealistic expectations of what holds couples together... - Divorced children have suffered bigger problems in the first 2 years of separation than children from intact families. This applies to schooling, behavior, mental adaptation, self-esteem and social skills. If your marriage makes you too self-conscious and depressed, your children will also suffer from your emotional retreat... - People who are hurt and even hate at a time can learn to love each other again. Human beings can separate and return to one another - Human conflicts can be successfully resolved - An intimacy crisis can lead to significant changes and a stronger bond... - Violent conquests always win over affections, if only for a short time. So those who are worshiping lose against those who love each other. Later, when the passion fades and conflicts occur - they see the lover more critically and the partner in a more favorable light. But then there is probably no one left to return to. I advise you to a more cognitive - than emotional decision. If you are waiting to be more positive before you act positively - your partnership will not get very far...
A healthy, self-assured, competent adult:
1 Feelings of security - 2 Independence in everyday life - 3 Solid emotional connections with others - 4 Being appreciated - 5 Unhindered self-expression - 6 Imperfection and having fun - 7 To live with real limitations... (Abrahms / Spring)

We do not see things as they are - but as we are... (Anais Nin)

The injured partner:
Your silence is not the cause of the infidelity of your partner, but it will enable you to endure what is intolerable to you... - Through an affair, you can direct your hatred to yourself rather than to your unfaithful parent - You direct the anger you have on the person who has destroyed your family against yourself - Then you must not mourn the loss of the parent who was not there for you... - Openly talk to me about your feelings. Do not lock yourself, do not withdraw yourself, and do not attack me... - No proximity is without conflict - Stand to your desire, or you will remain nothing but the illusion of peace... (Abrams / Spring)

Self-esteem is an individual's subjective evaluation of their own worth. Self-esteem .... American psychologist Abraham Maslow included self-esteem in his ... and the need for self-respect in the form of self-love, self-confidence, skill, or aptitude. ... Childhood experiences that contribute to healthy self-esteem include being ...

Angela Anaïs Juana Antolina Rosa Edelmira Nin y Culmell (February 21, 1903 – January 14, .... Faced with a desperate need for money, NinHenry Miller and some of their friends began in the 1940s to write erotic and pornographic narratives ...

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