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02.11.2019 - F. B. Simon and feelings and self-protection etc...


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Anyone who lets himself to see through is given to the power of others, because he can be calculated, that is, the autonomy of the individual is based on the fact that no one else knows what is going on in it because of the inner-outer boundary...  - To open up and to be well understood is not the only danger to one's own independence in a close emotional relationship - whoever wants something from another person (tenderness, love, sex, recognition, etc.), gives him power over himself... - To lose oneself is always connected with the threat of ones own autonomy. Everyone tries to open the other (to "crack"), but at the same time to close oneself... - When all do this, an atmosphere of oppressed feelings arises - in which everyone reads and thinks that the other is like himself - The ambivalence between the fear of loneliness, isolation, and solitude on the one hand, and the fear of unfreedom, dependence, and constriction on the other - determines the schizophrenic pattern... - This flipping between opening and closing leads to a general uncertainty as to who the other really is, and how he feels or thinks... - The crazy self-demarcation and contact refusal of the autistic person - can be understood as a radical attempt to manage everything by himself, and to withdraw from the empowerment by others... - Relationship leads into a dilemma: to meet the needs of the other requires a high degree of understanding - which is associated with the risk of disempowerment... - The power of parents is based on the inclusion and exclusion (oppression)... - Where the expression of loving feelings misses its seductive effect, in the end remains only the helplessly exasperated attempt to influence each other by devaluation... - Already from self-protection everyone tries to hide his emotions... (F.B. Simon)

Fritz B. Simon (* 27. Oktober 1948 in Siegen) ist ein deutscher Psychiater, Psychoanalytiker und Familientherapeut. Er gilt als führender Vertreter der ...

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