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27.01.2020 - Verena Kast and loneliness and relationship anxiety etc...

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Loneliness is fundamentally part of life and being alone is also a fundamental dimension of human life - By this (resulting) separation aggression is often dressed in a reproach to the partner - One wants too much of the other. You finally have to be alone and do something on your own - that makes perfect sense. It's about having feelings for oneself, a secure, accepting space for oneself - On the one hand the beautiful appearance is cultivated (the lovers are young, beautiful, full of desire and full of promise), and on the other sex is propagated as gymnastics and competitive sports - A culture of desire is barely presented, even no dialogues of love. Moreover, the sexual needs of women and men are not the same - Women who are economically dependent are more willing to adapt sexually, and to deny themselves. Women want to achieve closeness, self-esteem, security and a home by adapting to the sexuality of the man - When love desire and sacrificial fantasies are disappointed, inappetency arises - 70% of women are cheating (after 5 years of marriage) and (men 75 %). The reason is alienation from the husband / wife, i.e. not enough or only unsatisfactory sex - Power conflicts are not conducive to the intense feelings of love - The sexual fantasies sometimes go very private ways in this time, ways which the partner may not even want to know, and which you do not want to share anymore. This is part of this phase - There is still a relational anxiety to consider, which can play a role in all the described forms of fear: the fear of destiny - If we are afraid of destinies, then the new fantasies are forbidden - but they are the basis for the feelings of love, passion and aliveness - The concept of faith can be very fatal. The question is where we want to be faithful. Do we want to be true to a liveliness, or do we want to be faithful to a human being at the price that we are then completely lifeless? - In situations that trigger fear because we do not meet a requirement - we feel ashamed and are afraid of losing face, and no longer being looked at ... (V. Kast)

Verena Kast (* 24. Januar 1943 in Wolfhalden, Schweiz) ist eine Schweizer Psychologin und Professorin für Psychologie an der Universität Zürich sowie ...


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