23.04.2025 - P. Lauster and Life & Relationships & Crises and Destiny & a Sense of Inevitability etc.

dali48 and private tuition since 8/1983, menaced since 1989, and writing diary & books & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010

dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.

Wolfgang G. Greiner 

dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.

see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)

Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 

see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 

Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 

Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 

„Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)

see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 

Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and UBI & ground pension since 2008 etc.

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.

see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)

May "God" bless you! - see dali48 and may the Saints & Guardian Angels bless you etc.!

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.

see dali48 and reading & writing about chick shredding, and buying Free range eggs etc.

Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."

see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.

I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc

see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..

see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.

see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.

"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)

see dali48 and health and suitable shoes (see e.g. Canles etc. - d.48) & foot hygiene etc.

see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia

siehe dali48 und "Wie viel Wald verliert Deutschland aktuell pro Jahr? - Die Ergebnisse sind alarmierend: Von Januar 2018 bis einschließlich April 2021 wurden in Deutschland auf rund 501.000 Hektar Fläche Baumverluste verzeichnet. Der Verlust entspricht fast fünf Prozent der gesamten Waldfläche und ist damit erheblich höher als bisher angenommen. 21.02.2022" 

see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 

siehe z.B. Air quality in Mönchengladbach etc.

see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.

see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.

siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.

see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.

see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)

see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s

see dali48 and reading about money & war, - and feeding the poor & birds etc.

In Armut lebt: Jeder 3. Student & 5. Rentner, Wer kein „Entlastungspaket“ bekommt: Studierende, Rentner ohne Grundrente, Kranke, https://pic.twitter.com/RUv88KaLbx

see dali48 & for UBI since 2008 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 & for alternative energy as e.g. wind power & solar energy and solar- 

lamp, roof, panel, cooker, window solar-foil etc. since the 70s as a student in Tübingen etc.

see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.

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12.12.2000 - Interpretation of dali48 + update

Corpses cannot be sustained because they disintegrate (in about 17 minerals) and change in their own way! - How much less can life finally be treated once and for all! - To each learning belongs peace, patience and collection (see concentration etc. - d.48)! - Love is not a guarantee for a functioning relationship! - There lies the error! - We enjoy our love, - it is not thereby diminished, - and renounce marriage and the children. - Love knows no crisis (? etc. - d.48). - Relationship and marriage know 1000 crises brought by the society (see e.g. bullying etc. from the outside - d.48), or the Zeitgeist (see e.g. corona-pandemy etc. - d.48), by neuroses, destiny or self-knowledge, - by luck or misfortune! - Love is emotion, marriage is a contract (rationally created bond), so I see the marriage very critical under these conditions! - Whoever wants to love will be mostly disappointed by the marriage, - and whoever strives for marriage will usually lose love! ... (P. Lauster)

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Peter Lauster – Wikipedia

Peter Lauster (* 21. Januar 1940 in Stuttgart) ist ein deutscher Psychologe und Autor zahlreicher Selbsthilfebücher. Er ist bekannt geworden durch seinen ...

What does death by a thousand cuts mean in a relationship? - A relationship dies the death of a thousand cuts when there is no one big thing that actually ends it. There is no affair; no big blow-up; no big scene; no big nothing. Rather, two people just never quite find the time or the energy for each other. Every day they fail to engage with each other is just one little cut.

What is destiny in a relationship? - Destiny in a romantic relationship can feel like a connection beyond explanation. Signs might include a sense of inevitability, profound understanding, shared values, and effortless communication. It's also marked by a feeling of growth and support, where both partners help each other become their best selves.10.05.2024

What is the sense of inevitable? - the fact of being certain to happen and unable to be avoided ...09.04.2025

What is the theory of inevitability? - It suggests a deterministic perspective, where events and outcomes are predetermined and bound to occur. While this statement aligns with certain philosophical or metaphysical perspectives, it is not universally accepted in the realm of science.12.06.2023
see dali48 and reading & writing about Psychology & Psychiatry and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, A. Janov, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, E. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum, J. Murphy, S. Steinbrecher, E. Kübler-Ross, R. A. Moody, K. Ring, I. D. Suttie, E. Jacobson, S. Forward, H. Gastager, C. M. Steiner, W. G. Niederland, R. Funk, N. Schwartz-Salant, J. Shaw, M. Woodman, R. Reich-Moise, M.-L. v. Franz, M.B. Roberts, H. König, H.-J. Maaz, G. Boyesen, W. Hollstein, A. Samuels, J. Lacan, M. Klein, O. Fenichel, S.A. Carter, J. Sokol, H. Selye, E. Rossi, L. Bourbeau etc.

23.04.2025 - P. Lauster & this moment & partnership etc. / R. M. Rilke & happiness & recognition etc.

dali48 and private tuition since 8/1983, menaced since 1989, and writing diary & books & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010

dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.

Wolfgang G. Greiner 

dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.

see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)

Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 

see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 

Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 

Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 

„Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)

see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 

Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and UBI & ground pension since 2008 etc.

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.

see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)

May "God" bless you! - see dali48 and may the Saints & Guardian Angels bless you etc.!

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.

see dali48 and reading & writing about chick shredding, and buying Free range eggs etc.

Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."

see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.

I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc

see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..

see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.

see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.

"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)

see dali48 and health and suitable shoes (see e.g. Canles etc. - d.48) & foot hygiene etc.

see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia

siehe dali48 und "Wie viel Wald verliert Deutschland aktuell pro Jahr? - Die Ergebnisse sind alarmierend: Von Januar 2018 bis einschließlich April 2021 wurden in Deutschland auf rund 501.000 Hektar Fläche Baumverluste verzeichnet. Der Verlust entspricht fast fünf Prozent der gesamten Waldfläche und ist damit erheblich höher als bisher angenommen. 21.02.2022" 

see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 

siehe z.B. Air quality in Mönchengladbach etc.

see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.

see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.

siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.

see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.

see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)

see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s

see dali48 and reading about money & war, - and feeding the poor & birds etc.

In Armut lebt: Jeder 3. Student & 5. Rentner, Wer kein „Entlastungspaket“ bekommt: Studierende, Rentner ohne Grundrente, Kranke, https://pic.twitter.com/RUv88KaLbx

see dali48 & for UBI since 2008 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 & for alternative energy as e.g. wind power & solar energy and solar- 

lamp, roof, panel, cooker, window solar-foil etc. since the 70s as a student in Tübingen etc.

see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.

Bilder

diary 3: by dali48 on twitter : Dali, 48: Amazon.de: Bücher

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Amazon.de: dali48: Bücher, Biographie, neuestes Aktualisierung

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11.12.2000 - Interpretation of dali48 + update

Nothing remains as it is at this moment. - This is not a pessimism, it is a fact! - We should not close our eyes, - only because it is more pleasant to look at a beginning than to see the end! ... (P. Lauster)

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Zen, oft mit Meditation und innerer Ruhe assoziiert, konzentriert sich auf die Gegenwart und das Erkennen von Schönheit und Wahrheiten in diesem Moment. Es ist ein Weg, das Bewusstsein auf den gegenwärtigen Augenblick zu richten und die natürliche Welt zu schätzen. 

Zen und die Gegenwart:

Meditation:

Zen-Praktiken, wie Zazen, dienen dazu, das Bewusstsein zu beruhigen und die Aufmerksamkeit auf den gegenwärtigen Moment zu lenken. 

Intuition:

Zen legt Wert auf intuitives Handeln und das Vertrauen in die eigene innere Weisheit, anstatt auf rationales Denken. 

Schätzen des Augenblicks:

Zen ermutert, die Schönheit und die einzigartigen Qualitäten des gegenwärtigen Augenblicks zu erkennen und zu schätzen, sei es in der Natur oder in den kleinen Details des Alltags. 

Annehmen, was ist:

Zen beinhaltet die Akzeptanz von allem, was ist, sowohl Positives als auch Negatives, ohne es zu beurteilen oder zu verändern. 

Erleuchtung:

Zen lehrt, dass Erleuchtung durch die tiefe Erkenntnis erreicht wird, dass man bereits ein erleuchtetes Wesen ist. 

Beispiele für "Zen in diesem Moment":

Eine Tasse Tee trinken: Den Geschmack, die Wärme und den Duft des Tees bewusst wahrnehmen. 

Gartenarbeit: In den Rhythmus der Arbeit eintauchen und die Verbindung zur Natur spüren. 

Ein Kunstwerk betrachten: Den Farben, Formen und der Atmosphäre der Kunstwerke bewusst und achtsam begegnen. 

Mit einem Kind spielen: Sich in die Freude und Unschuld des Kindes einlassen. 

Fazit:

Zen in diesem Moment bedeutet, die Gegenwart zu nutzen, um tiefer mit sich selbst und der Welt in Verbindung zu treten und Erleuchtung zu erfahren, indem man die Schönheit des gegenwärtigen Augenblicks erkennt und schätzt. 

Interpretation of dali48

We strive for happiness and well-being, but we are looking at the wrong place, because we strive for recognition and possession, for power and status, for safety and knowledge, and think that we find happiness there. - We want to have the fear of life In the grip. It can only be temporarily covered, - since all this can be lost at any time (and even life, only constant change and death are certain). - So we have to let go of what creates fear. - In a partner relationship it is the fear of loss. - Anything that minimizes anxiety can be lost - to the partner himself, for he can die from one day to the next, - and we ourselves, by the way, too. - We must let the other be as he is. - He is to let us just be as we are. - I let him be as he is without detracting or degrading him. - Letting go brings us and the partner into freedom. - But we do not want freedom but attachment (as presumed security). - In principle, no one can help the other in life, not even ones own mother. - Everyone has to go through the conflicts of life oneself. - One is ultimately alone ... (R. M. Rilke, partnerships)

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Rainer Maria Rilkes Partnerschaften, insbesondere seine Beziehung zu Clara Westhoff und seine Liaison mit Lou Andreas-Salomé, waren prägend für sein Leben und Werk. Er heiratete Clara Westhoff 1901, die Ehe scheiterte jedoch bereits im folgenden Jahr. Lou Andreas-Salomé, eine intellektuelle und Schriftstellerin, war eine wichtige Inspirationsquelle und hatte einen tiefgreifenden Einfluss auf Rilke. 

Rilke und Clara Westhoff:

Heirat und Scheidung:

Rilke heiratete Clara Westhoff 1901, die Ehe hielt jedoch nur ein Jahr, wie Suhrkamp Verlag berichtet.

Erinnerung und Einfluss:

Die Beziehung zu Clara Westhoff blieb jedoch ein wichtiger Teil seines Lebens und seines Werkes.

Trennung und neuer Beginn:

1911 trennten sich Rilke und Clara, obwohl die Scheidung wegen der hohen Kosten ausblieb. Rilke zog anschließend in die Schweiz. 

Rilke und Lou Andreas-Salomé:

Liaison:

Rilke hatte eine Affäre mit der verheirateten Lou Andreas-Salomé, die sich auf tiefere Ebene der intellektuellen und emotionalen Verbundenheit konzentrierte, wie Suhrkamp Verlag berichtet.

Einfluss auf Rilkes Werk:

Lou Andreas-Salomé war eine wichtige Inspirationsquelle für Rilke und beeinflusste sein Werk maßgeblich, wie Suhrkamp Verlag berichtet.

Intellektuelle Verbundenheit:

Rilke und Lou Andreas-Salomé teilten eine tiefe intellektuelle und emotionale Verbundenheit. 

Weitere Partner:

Hertha Koenigs:

Rilke verbrachte eine Zeit lang auf Hertha Koenigs Gut Böckel in Westfalen, wie Wikipedia berichtet. 

Hertha Koenigs Beziehung:

Rilke und Hertha Koenigs hatten eine enge Freundschaft und eine persönliche Beziehung, die sich auch auf Rilkes Leben und Werk auswirkte, wie Deutschlandfunk berichtet. 

Interpretation of dali48 + update

Being alone is necessary! - Only loneliness and isolation can be agonizing. - But, and they all do not want to know it - that "love is something heavy", especially partnership! - By mutual dominance and intolerance - arise intolerance, and mental injuries! ... (P. Lauster)

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In Germany, the state of married couples is experiencing a decline in both marriage rates and the percentage of the population who are married. While there's a trend toward later marriages and more single adults, married couples still face several legal and financial considerations. A notable change in 2025 is the allowance of double surnames for married couples and children. 

Key Trends and Changes:

Declining Marriage Rates:

The number of marriages in Germany has been decreasing, and the number of married adults is also falling. 

Increased Age at First Marriage:

The average age for first marriage is higher than in the past, with women marrying at 32.8 and men at 35.3 years old. 

Double Surname Law:

A new regulation allows married couples and their children to have double surnames. 

Tax Class IV for Newly Married Couples:

Newly married couples will be automatically assigned tax class IV, but can apply for class III if desired. 

Spousal Tax Advantages:

Married couples can benefit from joint income tax assessment, potentially reducing overall tax burden. 

Family Health Insurance:

If a partner is a member of a statutory health insurance scheme, they can cover their spouse and children free of charge, provided the family members' income is below certain limits. 

Peter Lauster – Wikipedia

Peter Lauster (* 21. Januar 1940 in Stuttgart) ist ein deutscher Psychologe und Autor zahlreicher Selbsthilfebücher. Er ist bekannt geworden durch seinen ...

Rainer Maria Rilke - Wikipedia

René Karl Wilhelm Johann Josef Maria Rilke (4 December 1875 – 29 December 1926), better known as Rainer Maria Rilke was a Bohemian-Austrian poet and ...

Died‎: ‎29 December 1926 (aged 51); ‎Montreux, ...

Children‎: ‎1

Language‎: ‎German, French

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see dali48 and reading & writing about Psychology & Psychiatry and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, W. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum, J. Murphy, S. Steinbrecher, E. Kübler-Ross, R. A. Moody, K. Ring, I. D. Suttie, E. Jacobson, S. Forward, H. Gastager, C. M. Steiner, W. G. Niederland, R. Funk, N. Schwartz-Salant, A. Janov, A. & M. Mitscherlich, H. König, W. Hollstein, W. H. Lechler, E. Drewermann, B. Bettelheim, V. Kast, M. Klein, M. Lütz, j. Borysenko etc.