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With some certainty, Mr. X will have defeated his wife after a few rounds - since she has a good prerequisite for a defeat as a woman:
She does not have a strong adult ego, and she tends to "rescue" and "nurture." - Control and power in itself provide no well-being. - We only find it when we have enough food, shelter, space, caress, love and soul peace. - All of this is not achieved through "powerplay," but through collaboration. - No help without contract. - Do not hold anyone for helpless. - If your counterpart feels helpless, help him to use his existing powers. - Do not use a special chair or seat. - Do not go to the phone during the group sessions (see during tutoring, see house-door bell, see fake calls in Erkrath etc. - d.48). - Do not dress more expensive than the group participants (see pupils etc. - d.48). - Only draw the attention of the group to you if it is therapeutically justified. - Do not interrupt anyone. - Reject all the salutations spoken from a subordinate position. - Flattery of the type "you are fantastic!" should be rejected. - Keep attention that you speak from a position of equality on all subjects except where you are referred to as an expert (see therapist, teacher, doctor, etc. - d.48). Your telephone number must be in the phone book. - If you are annoyed by a (see e.g. a pupil etc. - d.48), then you have probably got involved in "rescue" (for fear of hurting others) ... (C. Steiner)
Claude Michel Steiner (6 January 1935 – 9 January 2017) was a French-born American ... He became one of the founders of Radical Therapist Collective and wrote extensively about radical ... "Cooperation", Issues in Radical Therapy Vol.
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