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11.01.2024 - Updated part of ediary6-12, Doc. p.1389-1410, Teacher, Kawabata, Messegue, Change etc.

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15.04.2014 - A wise Teacher and a Checklist of adult children etc. by dali48 

dali48 and photographing & identifying cowslips in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
   
Interpretation of dali48
Many men transfer to sexuality the need for closeness and embrace. They sexualize their emotional needs… (J. Bradshaw)

If you cannot be who you are, - and no one is really there for you, then no feelings, needs or desires are OK...       
Pain is a vehicle for growth and a wise teacher. Without pain - the heart is hollow. The deeper the sorrow cuts into your being - the more joy you can feel (I believe that parents are responsible of being there for their children. For this reason I propose not to have children before the age of 30 years, +/- 10 years, and to attend a “Parents’ School” etc. - d.48).
Checklist of adult children of emotionally violent families: fears of abandonment, repression and deception, undifferentiated emotions, loneliness and isolation, disorder of thought, forced behavior and addiction, a high degree of uncertainty, intimacy problems, loss of emotion and energy - shameful drives and needs; anger-guilt cycle; emotional bonds of shame, emotions are not expressed – “taboo of silence”…
Excessive control, false “self” - empty, narcissistically deprived, manipulative and arbitrary, pampered and demanding; terrorized and tortured; insatiable child inside, perfectionism, rigor, authoritarian, needy and demanding, physically and / or sexually abused, no emotional coping strategies - no communication skills; injured emotional limits, internalized anger, sadness, fear, joy, shame, aggressor-victim ambiguity, loss of internal ego-unit, involved in concern for others, phobia of presence; damaged by bad example; emotional constraints (and dramatic outbreaks)... 
Fears of abandonment: You find it difficult to separate. You maintain relationships - that are long since broken down. You heard things and can’t separate yourself from anyone and anything... 
Undifferentiated emotions: you never know exactly what you feel - you do not know how to bring your emotions to express! You cry when you are angry - you are quick-tempered, if you are afraid. You “somatize” your feelings - that is, you are often sick! You feel through others... 
Loneliness and isolation: You have no relation to your environment - that sometimes seems unreal for you... (J. Bradshaw) 

15.04.2014 - Kawabata Nobel L. 1968 and Ryokan etc. by dali48
 
dali48 and photographing "Flora and Fauna" in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.   

Interpretation of dali48
When we see the beauty of the snow - of the full moon - of the 4 seasons - it is then that we think most of those close to us, and want them to share the pleasure. The excitement of beauty calls forth strong fellow feelings, yearnings for companionship and the word “comrade” can be taken to mean “human being”. The snow, the moon, the blossoms, words expressive of the seasons as they move one into another, include in the Japanese tradition the beauty of mountains and rivers and grasses and trees, of all the myriad manifestations of nature, of human feelings as well…   
Ryokan lived in the spirit of these poems, a wanderer who was walking on country paths, had a grass hut for shelter, rags for clothes, and farmers to talk with. The profundity of religion and literature was not, for him, in the absurd. He rather pursued literature and belief in the benign spirit summarized in the Buddhist phrase “a smiling face and a gentle word”... 
In his last poem he offered nothing as a legacy. He but hoped that after his death nature would remain beautiful. That could be his bequest. One feels in the poem the emotions of old Japan, and the heart of a religious faith as well...
“I wondered and wondered when she would come. And now we are together. What thoughts need I have”? … (Y. Kawabata, Nobel L. 1968)  

15.04.2014 - Mességué & Franco and healthy food & herbs etc. by dali48
 
dali48 and photographing a fountain and "flora & fauna" in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.      

Interpretation of dali48
Brown sugar contains calcium, ferrum, phosphorus, which the white sugar is not - because it was added chemical bleach, indanthrene blue... 
Vitamin B Complex helps: skin, mucous membranes, anemia, conjunctivitis etc. - it is in brewer's yeast, milk, whole grains, eggs, raw butter, fish, spinach, oleaginous fruits, brown sugar… 
Organic products (buy it without pesticides and chemical fertilizers) because of the mineral salts (calcium, ferrum, magnesium, potassium, sodium) and trace elements (iodine, phosphorus, selenium, zinc etc)... (V. Franco)

Since water-soluble vitamins are very sensitive (see cooking, sterilizing etc. - d.48) they should be taken additionally: Vitamin B Complex (yeast tablets), Vitamin C... (dali48)

Beware of alcohol, coffee, tobacco, heavy meals (fat) in general, meat and poultry (fattened with hormones)...
Frigid women are often nervous natures - in order to dampen their internal tension there is help from teas: 
Hawthorn, safflower, corn, dog rose, lime and orange blossom, sage, anise, thyme… 
Against impotence and frigidity helps: 
Green anise, hogweed (see garlic, etc. - d.48), buttercup, celandine, fenugreek, mint, rosemary, and savory, sage; and teas, baths, and douches, massages (spine and kidney area)... 
Banished from the kitchen are: Alcohol (recommended by me, in medical doses etc. - d.48), brown butter (e.g. with “boiled trout” etc. - d.48), carbonated drinks (better is healing water etc. - d.48), starch, fermented cheese, canned, animal fats, bread, confectionery, sauces, salt (finely metered - d.48), bleached sugar, meat with “haut gout” (too old etc. - d.48), white wine, vinegar... 
Healthy food means lots of vegetables (leek, carrots, artichokes, lettuce, onions, cabbage, celery, and fennel) raw and cooked, fish, cheese, grilled meat, yogurt, lots of herbs, olive oil, lots of fruit, unsalted vegetable broth... (V. Franco / M. Mességué) 

15.04.2014 - Rapid change and Death and Science etc. by dali48
 
dali48 and cycling and photographing "flora & fauna" in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.        

Interpretation of dali48
Against cramps helps: Melissa spirit or ether, a few drops on a sugar cube… 
Headache: cold compresses, rest, fresh air, relaxation, massage, inhibit blood rush to the head, cold compresses, cold baths of feet and hands...
Against itching: Rub with vinegar, bicarbonate of soda (10g to 1 liter of water)... (V Franco/Mességué)

Farewell – “is to die a little”…    

Only those who let nothing affect them inside - of what happens to them in life, can live without losses - and remain undamaged. Only he, who unites himself with nothing, does not have to separate himself. To escape the parting words means - to surround oneself with people, things, living beings, whose disappearance doesn’t cause any pain or grief. - Rapid change is the panacea for fear of loss and pain of separation - that’s why most of us lead "turbocharger lives" in order to flee from fear of loss and pain of separation (from the past into the future – without having experienced the presence etc. - d.48); breathlessness, unconsciousness; without experience…
Rapid change in turn causes immeasurable cost in time and security, but above all in vitality - The coldness of death enters into life, not though, but because the memory of his coldness should be eradicated. Any action made against his presence in life - is a killing... 
The reconciliation with death expires all blackmailing. Who could tell to the men of power in the face, although you can destroy me, but not control me, and so he would have neutralized the power in air, because he would have withdrawn the necessary counterpart to their existence... 
Without death of man - there would be neither society nor history - nor future or hope... 
A life which tries to get rid from death - dies, is superfluous and irrelevant, without influence, monotone, deathlike - but greedy. A living being who is purified of death is hungering out the life of itself in three ways: it is risk-averse and addicted to security - It is obsessed with the idea - of saving time. It avoids taking the farewell... 
Science is the enemy of people. It flatters the mighty desires which lead to our destruction. - About 520,000 scientists are working on the improvement of weapons of death - and only 180,000 in the preservation of our lives (i.e. approximately three quarters of the scientists are working for death - and only 1/4 for life etc. - d.48)... (G. Eisenberg/M. Gronemeyer)
 
Golden Snow “dali48, that is a great example of the mind and heart pain after a death , I have had experience with several family deaths in the last few years I know I keep running never wanting to stay alone , gathering people around when I could ... this would suite my actions " in order to flee from fear of loss and pain of separation (from the past into the future – without having experienced the presence etc. - d.48); breathlessness, unconsciousness; without experience…
I realize that death is inevitable , the shock of the separation puts us into a mood of need ... the need of someone to fill the space in one’s life ... your Interpretation of dali48 is wonderful , it has help me a great deal” ...

Golden Snow “your quote "Science is the enemy of people " one can see that with those figures I never knew ... we never know , thank you for information d.48 , it is good to know” ...

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see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and of "Banking Crisis" since 2008 and of corona-virus since 2020 etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce honey ...
see dali48 & Climate Change, heat waves, dryness, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas, California etc), floods, hurricanes etc. since ca. 2000, despite Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, "Overshootday", mass extinction etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish,#ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI & biodiversity & health etc...
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)

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