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10.01.2024 - Updated part of ediary6-12, Doc. p.1375-1389, Joy & Pain, Shame &, Loneliness, Lost child etc.

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14.04.2014 - Joy and Pain / Blavatsky / Dahlke / Comments etc. by dali48

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Interpretation of dali48
Consider equally joy and pain, profit and loss, victory and defeat. Seek protection in the Eternal alone. Destroy the sense of separateness. The mind that follows the wandering emotional feelings - makes the soul so helpless like a boat, which is misleaded by the wind on the sea… (Bhagavad-Gita)

The wise in spiritual things, is not mourning for the dead - or to the living... 
The self of the material and the self of the mind - can never meet. One of the two things must disappear - there is no room for both... 
Do not believe that pleasure can ever be destroyed if it is satisfied - because this is an abomination that is inspired by "Mara". For if the vice is fed - it is strong and expands, like the worm that is bold in the heart of the flower... 
Before you hearest not, you cannot see (see audio-visual method etc. - d.48). Before you do not see, you cannot hear… (H. P. Blavatsky)
Keep your mind back from all external things, of all external reviews. Keep your distance from internal ideas, so no dark shadows fall on the light of your soul... 

Zinc deficiency means: Smell and taste disturbances, skin changes, erectile dysfunction, diarrhea, irritability, lethargy, depression, aggressiveness, severe weight loss, eye changes, abnormal muscle weakness, susceptibility to infection, white spots or ridges on the finger nails, cold hands and feet etc.
As you recognize your own body and the body of the world as closely interwoven in space and time, you will realize how much the two are related, and that everything you do for yourself, you also do for the world - and vice versa. Just as this realization has something painful - there also lies hope in it. If you help yourself - you also help the earth, and vice versa...
What looks in advance so depressing, like all the tests, is considered harmless in retrospect - and not worth to excitement... (R. Dahlke) 

Golden Snow 
“Wonderful excerpts from Interpretation of dali48 are wonderful thanks for sharing ... "Consider equally joy and pain, profit and loss, victory and defeat. Seek protection in the Eternal alone. Destroy the sense of separateness. The mind that follows the wandering emotional feelings - makes the soul so helpless like a boat ... "this is filled with wisdom , if we were brought up to believe in the Eternal our hearts and mind would not receive the pain and separation that comes with death ...most of us have been given fear ... I remember the day my Father died , he was sick and had me on the side of his bed reading me a book , he went to sleep and I lay down and sleep with him ... soon hands were pulling me away and saying, he's dead, he's dead! I felt the fear in my heart and hid under bed for hours ... with days full of tears, and from my family I learned early that death was a monster ... thanks dali48 , again knowledge heals ... looking forward to my novel”
Golden Snow 
“This next quote stopped me ," you will realize how much the two are related, and that everything you do for yourself, you also do for the world" so as we care for ourselves both body and mind we have something to offer that is standing on soundly, which makes sense” ...

14.04.2014 - Dependence and Shame and J. Bradshaw etc. by dali48

dali48 and writing ediary6-12 and photographing a lake in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc. 

Interpretation of dali48 
Concerning eating, sex, work, and dependence of people - things are slightly different. You cannot stop eating completely, to drink, to have sex, to work, - or to live without people. Here, total abstinence - would mean death. Each addiction needs to be healed on its own way. There are also similarities. One common feature is the surrender of the great will…
The most effective means through which we bring the walls of defense of our shame to collapse - is by experienced pain and suffering. Pain is a reliable teacher. We have built our defense to avoid our pain, and so overlap our suffering. When we experience suffering and pain - which are greater than the pain that we try to avoid, - the walls are starting to collapse... 
We must learn to live only one day after another... 
Asking for help is something that a humiliated person - would not bring over its heart. Shame believes that it has no right to be dependent on others, - and to ask for help...
Internalized shame is beyond repair. Therefore, it must be brought to the outside. That is, to relativate its grandiose claims...
Healing makes the experience of emotions necessary. What you do not feel - you cannot heal. You can laugh again. You are not so terribly dramatic and serious... (J. Bradshaw) 

14.04.2014 - J. Bradshaw and  loneliness / Jo Courdet and mourning etc. by dali48
 
dali48 and cycling and photographing "flora and fauna" in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc. 
 
Interpretation of dali48
Drug dependencies have their own addictions. - They are incurable... 
We need to let the feelings (see e.g. pain etc. - d.48) of our abandonment become reality. That means we have to give up the primary “ego” defenses, denial and deception in relation to our parents and families. Remember that loneliness includes narcissistic deprivation, neglect of our dependency needs, physical, emotional and sexual abuse as well as our involvement in the needs of our family systems… 
Probably the biggest narcissistic wound - not to have been loved as what you were - cannot heal without grief... (J. Bradshaw)

Mourning begins with shock and denial. It continues in a kind of bargaining takes over in anger, guilt, remorse, grief, injury and ends in acceptance. Most of us have to do with grief all their life. We sit down in the phases of shock and denial. Therefore, the adult children suffer from chronic depression... 
You do not have to be loved, - not at the expense of yourself... (Jo Courdet)  

14.04.2014 - Lost child and self-love etc. by dali48

dali48 and feeding & photographing seagulls from the coast during winter in the park of Wickrath etc.

Interpretation of dali48 
To accept your lost child with open arms - is the beginning of your work and the courage of self-love. It is a lifelong commitment. Don't cling to all people, who you know, - you're the only person that you’ll never lose… 
Process of detachment – is to leave the childhood home. Break out of hypnosis, - to break the spell. Work on anger and resentment"! - Group therapy is to accept the “original” child within you with open arms...
Lay away your primary defense mechanisms and rigid roles. - Stop coercive behavior. Uncover the transferred shame on you. Normality - is mediocrity. There are corrective experiences in terms of basic needs. Initial pain is - the grief of abandonment. The structure of values is “Ego” repair and border work. You must experience again childhood needs - as adults. Desire for a stable family, - and the guilt of the survivors...
In order to lead a decent life, we need strong “ego” boundaries. As co-dependent and cautious survivors - our life was dominated (and will continue to be so etc. – d.48) of suffering and threats... (J. Bradshaw) 

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