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28.11.1998 - Interpretation of dali48
Immature parent:
general lack of energy and drive; a tendency to avoid all problems; Loading the frustration on the partner... - is a sign of low self-esteem and immaturity; compulsive fixation on work and hobbies, for fear of being alone with the family or with oneself...
It follows:
To express ones lack and alienation from the partner, and suffering of the children...
Family therapists have discovered that children often sacrifice themselves and develop disorder symptoms - so parents can concentrate on these symptoms and repress their own problems...
The unspoken refusal to allow the child to approach an autonomous individual other than his parents can have serious consequences when the child is still small:
E.g. the child does not want to go to kindergarden etc. - Even with seemingly casual remarks, parents can sin if they are not conscious of how seriously they are taken by their child...
A couple with a child must sacrifice high goals:
optimal professional development; geographical mobility; the possibility of divorce at any time...
The needs of every family member are equally important - the child should be a bit more important...
Single Child (Hazards):
neurotic, overwhelmed, overprotected, over-sized expectations, aggravated by the loss of a parent, i.e. Individual children should look for other role models and build a healthy independence from their parents...
Failure to thrive:
Retention in growth, although no physical neglect is visible, emotional deprivation, unsatisfied hunger for spiritual food, mental and physical degeneration...
In the dream she (daughter) saw him (father) as a "pile of scrap" in the front yard"...
The emotionally ill-treated child shows through his symptoms (e.g. illness, summons with the police) only the state of parental marriage (see emergency signals)...
It knows that its growth is hampered by the pain of the parents, and seeks to relieve them of this pain. An intuitively correct strategy - The child is afraid:
When the marriage of my parents finally breaks, I stand in the cold - In an unequal marriage the children can not build on the fact that there is a firm bond between the parents...
Parents have the responsibility to prepare the child for life - and the child is supposed to make it easier for parents to tolerate the pain of aging and dying...
A parent can also form a coalition with the child against the other parent...
In the democratic family system all have certain basic rights...
No one is like the other - and his individuality has to be respected...
Every member has the right to speak and unfold in word and deed - to ask for what he needs - to make criticism - and to say what is on his mind, etc... (J. Covitz)
diary of dali48: 23.11.2018 - J. Borysenko and Audio therapy and Resist ... can never replace the father... (J. Covitz) Humans and plants are mortal and.
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see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...
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Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see E. Kuebler-Ross and R. Moody and Near Death Experiences - and my own experiences in the 80s and 12/2011 etc... (dali48)
see our planet and environment and deforestation and climate change and pollution and destructive traffic everywhere - instead of #ZeroHunger, UBI and surviving etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and world view 1968 etc. - compared with 1989 and 2008 etc...
Deposit on plastic & better recycling & cleaning, see e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org & biodegradable "plastic" bags - instead of polluting rivers & lakes & sea with waste etc... (dali48)
Concerning overfishing & polluting & damaging the oceans with garbage patches & ‘dead zones’ etc. - instead of e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org, see Golding & "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey" etc... (dali48)
Concerning overfishing & polluting & damaging the oceans with garbage patches & ‘dead zones’ etc. - instead of e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org, see Golding & "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey" etc... (dali48)
see @UNrightswire, see Human Rights & Clean Air & Drinking Water & Food & UBI - instead of destructive traffic, e.g. @BeijingAir & privatisation of drinking water & other violations etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and reading and writing and walking and cycling and photographing - and without car since 2004 etc...
Why bees etc. - are dying by the billions see pesticides and #Neonics http://bit.ly/1vJ6vI6 = 5000 times more toxic to bees than DDT etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and Human Rights (1948), warning of neo-fascism since 1989, and of Climate Change, and for Net Neutrality & Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI instead of HartzIV, and against rental usury, lobby donations since 2008, and against 80 000 Millions for arms...
see Ban of Basic Rights & Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of democratic control of #Polizeigesetz and introducing a UBI etc... (dali48)
see Ban of Basic Rights & Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of democratic control of #Polizeigesetz and introducing a UBI etc... (dali48)
see National Socialist tyranny and History produced evil - as Bees produced honey etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989, of Climate Change, and for Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI since 2008... Why is there no Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Hartz IV and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and neo-fascism etc.? (dali48)
Steven David Horwich @homeschoolcurr Want to ban homeschool? So did the Nazis. Read about it at bit.ly/lZkLNv... Retweeted by dali48
siehe dali48 und "Petition unterschreiben Bundesrat: AFD nach Artikel 21 GG verbieten lassen... change.org"
see dali48 and deforestation and Climate and species extinction by pesticides, leaf blowers etc. - and Human Rights violations instead of Biodiversity and UBI etc...
see beautiful wildflower havens and UBI - instead of tax havens and violations of Human Rights etc... (dali48)
see Con Gen ShanghaiAir @CGShanghaiAir 07-08-2019 16:00; PM2.5; 69.0; 158; Unhealthy (at 24-hour exposure at this level)...
01-15-2019 18:00; PM2.5; 37.0; 105; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)
see dali48 and "Those who will exclude any of God's creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity (see e.g. chick shredding etc.) - will deal likewise with their fellow man." (Francis of Assisi)
Concerning chick shredding, see St Francis and animals - see IB Singer and Treblinka - see Albert Schweitzer Foundation for our world around etc... (dali48)
Concerning chick shredding, see St Francis and animals - see IB Singer and Treblinka - see Albert Schweitzer Foundation for our world around etc... (dali48)
see bumble bees and bees again on lavender during my daily walk in the park since June 2018 etc... (dali48)
Marc Rufer etc...
and fresh water etc. - see seagulls from the coast of the Netherlands coming for fodder in winter - see "Flora and Fauna" since ca.2000 etc...
"Where they ban private tuition and books - they also ban teachers and authors at the end" ... (dali48, 2019)
see dali48 and why don't these millionaires unite - and pay a smallest UBI to many of the poorest of people?
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Das grosse Neonics Desaster. Seit 1995 sind bis zu 80 Prozent der Biomasse aller Fluginsekten in NRW verschwunden http://www.farmlandbirds.net/de/content/innerhalb-der-vergangenen-20-jahre-sind-bis-zu-80-prozent-der-biomasse-aller-fluginsekten-no …
Concerning road traffic: Urban areas must be safer for pedestrians and cyclists etc... (dali48)
etc... (dali48)
see Ban of Basic Rights and Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of saving the Internet and introducing UBI etc. (dali48, 2019)
see dali48 and Deforestation and Climate Change and #ExtinctionRebelion and Human Rights violations instead of UBI etc...
see dali48 and The majority of diseases that plague humanity are all rooted in a polluted environment (see e.g. Roundup, Glyphosat etc. - d.48)... (Change.org)
Concerning the dying of the bees etc. - see neonics etc.- "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey"... (dali48)
siehe 19.07.2019 - Torben Schiffer und Bienenforschung und zurück zur Natur, see https://beenature-project.com/de etc... (dali48)
Concerning deforestation & polluting rivers & burning forests etc. - instead of a monthly UBI - uncontrolled Capitalism produces evil as bees produce honey... (dali48)
see dali48 and reading and writing about the Nobel Prize in Literature from 1957 Albert Camus to 2017 Kazuo Ishiguro etc...
see dali48 and bread and UBI - instead of fireworks etc...
Concerning road traffic: Urban areas must be safer for pedestrians and cyclists etc... (dali48)
etc... (dali48)
see Ban of Basic Rights and Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of saving the Internet and introducing UBI etc. (dali48, 2019)
Apr 14
On the train to the EU Parliament, the Italian Senate, the Vatican and House of Parliament during the Easter holiday. And on Friday I’ll participate in the school strike in Rome. I know it’s a holiday but since the climate crisis doesn’t go on vacation nor will we. #Climatestrikesee dali48 and Deforestation and Climate Change and #ExtinctionRebelion and Human Rights violations instead of UBI etc...
see dali48 and The majority of diseases that plague humanity are all rooted in a polluted environment (see e.g. Roundup, Glyphosat etc. - d.48)... (Change.org)
Concerning the dying of the bees etc. - see neonics etc.- "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey"... (dali48)
siehe 19.07.2019 - Torben Schiffer und Bienenforschung und zurück zur Natur, see https://beenature-project.com/de etc... (dali48)
Concerning deforestation & polluting rivers & burning forests etc. - instead of a monthly UBI - uncontrolled Capitalism produces evil as bees produce honey... (dali48)
see dali48 and reading and writing about the Nobel Prize in Literature from 1957 Albert Camus to 2017 Kazuo Ishiguro etc...
see dali48 and bread and UBI - instead of fireworks etc...
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