18.12.2024 - The Snow Dance Part 95 and Our happiness etc. by Golden Snow

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The Snow Dance Part 95 ... by Golden Snow

Source Golden Snow - see "Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks) 
The Snow Dance Part 95 and Our happiness etc.

Our happiness is not a present someone else holds in his or her hands. Our well being is not held by another to be given or withheld at whim. If we reach out and try to force someone to give us what we believe he or she holds, we will be disappointed. We awake one day and find out that it is an illusion. That person did not hold it at all. That love we thought they would hold, did not contain our happiness. We reach out in desperate moments and try to claim the happiness and love we need. We want them to create our joy. It cannot happen. We have to deal with our issues, and we have to find our own happiness. Did I know that then, not in a long run. I stepped into a situation that lasted for over twenty years. Was I unhappy? No, but unfulfilled. Our healing from abuse will come when we become aware of, how we attempt to use others to take away our pain...

Gaining our happiness remains in our own hands. I never learned this lesson until many years later from a great person who had patience with a hurt and destroyed woman. He lifted and whispered the words to save my dying soul. Some days these words hurt, other days they fill my soul and draw me up from my illusions. A man filled with love for all things. A man who himself walked the road to hell and still filled the world with love. It is hard to open one's soul to anyone and caution has to be taken, or we will find ourselves be hurt again... When we lived a life of abuse it's like coming out of a muddy river dripping with dirt. We have to take time to breathe, to clean up and find ourselves before we go into any relationship. Of course we do not recognize this at that time what is happening because we just need the love we lack. We are desperate for relief of some kind. We are like an alcoholic. We have problems of codependency, and we will make mistakes. We all love to be cherished and loved. It is a need from within. It is not entirely bad. We all need love. We are all human and vulnerable. When the pain and hurt begins to lift we can acknowledge our feelings and slow down. We have to learn to be in the moment and not rush forward or stay in the past... Golden Snow

"Coming around the curve in the road dali48 , some things are hiding from memory , thanks for your help never would have reached this place without your encouragement ..." Golden Snow "Hello dali48 , again I thank you for your teaching and patience to keep me going , moving alone a little better ..."

see dali48 and Comment of Golden Snow 

"It means a lot to me dali48 to have my writings posted ... I am making notes and writing as often as I can , much thanks"

see Golden Snow

"Zen... dali48 can be a life changing adventure ... I am exited to learn as much as I can ... This could be what has been missing from my life ... to find this balance would change my life ... great Blog dali48 ..."

Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 

see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 

Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 

Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 

„Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha) 

Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.

see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.

Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."

see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.

I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc.

see "Write your life! - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)

Eleanor Seymour wrote me on FB (08.03.2024)

"Just wanted to let you know Golden passed away last night at 8.50 p.m."

Golden G. Snow (died, 7.3.2024, condolence, 9.3. - d.48)

 

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