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01.02.1998 - Interpretation of dali48
With some certainty, Mr. X will have defeated his wife after a few rounds - since she has a good prerequisite for a defeat as a woman:
- She does not have a strong adult ego, and she tends to "rescue" and "nurture"... - Control and power in itself provide no well-being. - We only find it when we have enough food, shelter, space, caress, love and soul peace. - All of this is not achieved through "power-play", but through collaboration... - No help without contract. - Do not hold anyone for helpless... - If your counterpart feels helpless, help him to use his existing powers. - Do not use a special chair or seat. - Do not go to the phone during the group sessions... - Do not dress more expensive than the group participants... - Only draw the attention of the group to you if it is therapeutically justified. - Do not interrupt anyone. - Reject all the salutations spoken from a subordinate position. - Flattery of the type "you are fantastic!", should be rejected. - Keep attention that you speak from a position of equality on all subjects except where you are referred to as an expert... - Your telephone number must be in the phone book. - If you are annoyed by a counterpart - then you have probably got involved in "rescue" (for fear of hurting others)... (C. M. Steiner)
- Claude Michel Steiner (6 January 1935 – 9 January 2017) was a French-born American psychotherapist and writer who wrote extensively about transactional ...Died: 9 January 2017 (aged 82); Ukiah, Califor...Notable works: Warm Fuzzy TaleBorn: 6 January 1935; Paris, France
see dali48 and reading & writing about Psychology & Psychiatry and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, E. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum, J. Murphy, S. Steinbrecher, E. Kübler-Ross, R. A. Moody, K. Ring, I. D. Suttie, E. Jacobson, S. Forward, H. Gastager, C. M. Steiner, W. G. Niederland, R. Funk, N. Schwartz-Salant, A. Janov, A. & M. Mitscherlich, H. König etc.
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