10.02.2014 - Fantasies1 and Daydreams etc. by dali48 on HP
Collection of photos by dali48 on Google etc.
27.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
Give up your fantasies - Take some time to find yourself - Put more value on yourself as an independent person - Be aware about the fact that you once had to decide yourself for self-sacrifice - and that you now have it in hand, to reverse this decision, - and that you can do so immediately... Give up hope that another person can do for you - what only you can do for yourself. - Get rid of the fear of not being liked. - Learn to be alone. - Make yourself aware of the following: If you define yourself by a relationship - or the lack of a relationship - your self is not clearly defined. - Do not make others allegations, because you get on too short in life. - Do not be afraid to be selfish. - Take care of yourself. - Be your own biggest fan... A connection of hearts is something very complex - and needs time to unfold - Fantasies, fears, and hormones, however, are not subtle - They obscure the reality - and are stronger than wisdom, discernment and tender feelings of the heart... (Carter / Sokol)
Fantasy in a psychological sense is broadly used to cover two different senses - conscious and unconscious - In the unconscious sense, it is sometimes spelled "phantasy"... A similarly positive view of fantasy - was taken by Sigmund Freud... Daydreams for Freud were thus a valuable resource... (Wikipedia)
10.02.2014 - Men and Women and third gender etc. by dali48
dali48 and private teaching and photographing a gold fish in Lake Morper in Erkrath till 5/2010
08.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
If you do not give up sex consistently and cultivate other "joys of couples" that can compensate for the deficiency, - then the relationship will fail because of great dissatisfaction... (D. Stiemerling)
The most frequently selected psychological and psychosomatic disorders include: anxiety, phobias, depression, nervous exhaustion, gastrointestinal diseases, cardiac neurosis, headaches, back problems, insomnia, sexual disorders, addictions (cigarettes, alcohol, eating, anorexia nervosa) and suicidal... So it's true that "bringing together men and women does not always match, - that love is an illusion (see "love" implies money + sex, etc. - d.48), marriage is a legalized prostitution, that men are selfish and only have sex in the head, - that women only see the breadwinner in their husband and are just looking for their children, otherwise they don't need him"...
Depression, phobias, psychosomatic disorders etc. are only a failed attempt - to stabilize again the tipping emotional balance...
Don't believe a single word I have said - I am not a scientist and not a guru. - Check for yourself what is said now and in the future... (A. Howley)
Interpretation of dali48
Gender is a range of characteristics of femininity, masculinity and others described as third gender - Depending on the context, the describing characteristics vary from sex to social roles (gender roles) to gender identity. The academic interdisciplinary field gender studies focuses on gender...
In the English literature, the trichotomy between biological sex, psychological gender, and social sex role first appeared in a feminist paper on transsexualism in 1978... A recent Publication by the Australian Human Rights Commission on "sexual orientation and gender identity" uses "sex and/or gender identity" as a broad term to refer to diverse sex and/or gender identities and expressions, including being "transgender, trans, transsexual and intersex. It also includes being androgynous, agender, a cross dresser, a drag king, a drag queen, genderfluid, genderqueer, intergender, neutrois, pansexual, pan-gendered, a third gender, and a third sex (that is, neither man or woman in legal terms) is Norrie May-Welby, from Australia, whose status was set on March, 2010… It also includes culturally specific terms, such as sistergirl and brotherboy, which are used by some Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples"... Gender Equality is also strongly linked to education. The Dakar Framework for Action (2000) set out ambitious goals: to eliminate gender disparities in primary and secondary education by 2005, and to achieve gender equality in education by 2015... The Gender-related Development Index (GDI), developed by the United Nations (UN), aims to show the inequalities between men and women in the following areas: long and healthy life, knowledge, and a decent standard of living... For example, in microfinance it is common to target women the first person, as besides the fact that women tend to be over-represented in the poorest segments of the population, they are also regarded as more reliable at repaying the loans. Muhammad Yunus says that he developed the policy of lending mainly to women not only because they were more responsible about re-paying the loans, but because families benefited more when the women controlled the money...
In Taoism, yin and yang are considered feminine and masculine, respectively. The Taijitu and concept of the Zhou period reach into family and gender relations. Yin is female and yang is male. They fit together as two parts of a whole. The male principle was equated with the sun: active, bright, and shining; the female principle corresponds to the moon: passive, shaded, and reflective. Male toughness was balanced by female gentleness, male action and initiative by female endurance and need for completion, and male leadership by female supportiveness... (Wikipedia)
10.02.2014 - Self-esteem and Articulation etc. by dali48
dali48 and private teaching and photographing his folding bike in Erkrath till 5/2010 22.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
Despite all the vows of fidelity and good intentions: infidelity is commonplace - but still a taboo subject. This capacity of ousting then exacts a price, if "it" happened. But infidelity does not always mean divorce immediately. If one succeeds in overcoming the resulting offense, it can become a new beginning for all parties... (J. Abrahms / M. Spring)
90% of all the (married) men and 75% of all the (married) women profess to have cheated at least once during their relationship. Infidelity is still the main reason for divorce. But does infidelity necessarily mean the end of a relationship?
The authors say a clear no - provided that both partners are willing to seriously examine their claims and to work together to rebuild them...
Post-traumatic stress disorder (caused by e.g. mobbing, etc. - d.48): a person under extreme emotional stress usually pulls back from life and loses itself to delusions...
The loss of your basic self-esteem is a much deeper injury than the infidelity itself, the loss of self coincides with the loss of voice, - the articulation of the relationship together. The voice is an indicator of the self... (D. Crowley / Jack)
It belongs to human nature - to hate those who you have hurt... (Tacitus)
In many intimate relationships, in many cultures, there is usually an express or implied expectation of exclusivity, especially in sexual matters. Infidelity (colloquially known as cheating) most commonly refers to a breach of the expectation of sexual exclusivity… Infidelity can occur in relation to physical intimacy and/or emotional intimacy. The impact of infidelity is said to be not only about sex outside the relationship, but also about trust, betrayal, lying and disloyalty. Sexual infidelity by a marriage partner is commonly called philandery, adultery, or an affair... (Wikipedia)
Golden Snow
“Interesting dali48 ... infidelity this is happening all the time... sometimes it is shocking to see just who falls into this trap ... I see friends I never thought would ever let anything come between them in their marriage ... but a time of weakness... and a whole life time of marriage can fall apart ... pride plays a big part in the separation, forgiveness comes hard .. the injured person hurts and feels unneeded and shame even thought they did nothing ... self-esteem goes down... it feels that they failed to keep their spouse happy and satisfied ... everyone suffers ... if they stay together always wonder during love making am I good enough ... If they try to stay together, it becomes a cold and unhappy marriage ... rebuilding, dali48, ... for me I do not think so ... sounds mean but these are my feelings”...
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
https://www.facebook.com/100000452958045/videos/372377540163904/
dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
see Human Rights & Survival without clean air ca. 3 minutes, clean water ca. 3 days, clean food ca. 30 days etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and a nervous breakdown (burnout) & 1 year of psychotherapy as a student in Tübingen in 1973 etc.
see dali48 and "Flora & Fauna" since ca. 2000 etc. - “If the "Flora & Fauna" disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind wouldn't have anything left to survive” etc.
22.11.2023 - Around Lake Unterbach near Erkrath there were many swifts flying close to my head till 5/2010. In Wickrath I don't see swifts anymore since 6/2010 etc.
21.06.2023 - I didn't see a butterfly yet in Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
Leaf blowers against bees etc. in the gardens correspond to hurricanes against humans etc. (dali48)
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
“There is no greater wealth in this world than peace of mind.” ~ Unknown
Psychology says, Trust your intuition. It never lies.
see dali48 & FGYO / SIT, language teacher, 1975/76 in Tübingen and Lenzkirch (Black Forest), and wandering in the morning, and in Erkrath (8/1983-5/2010) cooking houseman and teaching in the afternoon, on Saturdays & compact courses during holidays etc.
see dali48 and walking and cycling etc. - and without own car in Erkrath since 2004 - and without driving in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
"It takes few words to express the essential" - Paul Éluard
"One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." ... (H. Miller)
"The past is pain, the future uncertainty. The present is all we have" ... (Tao Wong)
„Wer immer die Wahrheit sagt, kann sich ein schlechtes Gedächtnis leisten.“ (F. Sulzer
)
"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." (F. Kafka)
see dali48 and bees and CCD and "neonics" since ca. 2000 etc.
In "love" are the beginning and the climax - the most beautiful periods etc... (dali48)
"Time spent with cats is never wasted." (S. Freud)
Why not use bio-methane, hydrogen, bio heating oil, e-heating oil - instead of banning oil and gas heating etc. (dali48)
"Only the present moment counts, even when the subject is the past." (R. D. Brinkmann)
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
Why not recreate lost Wetlands by desalinated sea water? ... (dali48)
Half of the money for arms should go as reparation to "flora & fauna" & UBI ,,, (dali48)
More money than 1 million should be redistributed into small basic incomes etc. (dali48)
"#UBI is the only policy that can end the Rat Race before it ends us." e money for arms
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
see dali48 and environmental disasters & @sara_s_2020 & #Tiredearth & Manila Slum (Philippines) & Creek etc.
»Auf dem Grabstein (der Erde; d. Red.) könnte stehen: Jeder wollte das Beste – für sich.« (Siegfried Lenz)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that"s why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." (@PsychologyDose_)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" ... (Osho)
"Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there" ... (Osho)
"Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
see
see dali48 and nervous breakdown & psychotherapy (1 year) in Tübingen in 1974 and the ontogenetic & phyloggenetic unconscious etc.
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population." Spelt helps: fatigue, loss of energy, heart problems etc. (St Hilda)
@dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups, from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & "The already uninhabitable Earth. Today (3.7.23), Zabol in Iran recorded the highest temperature on Earth at 49.6C" (@PGDynes), see e.g. https://aljazeera.com/news/2023/6/30/out-of-time-temperature-records-topple-around-the-world, & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of clean air (see e.g. Shanghai Air etc.) & drinking water (see desalination of sea water since ca. 2000), enough trees & healthy fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy since the 70s & UBI since 2008 & biodiversity & health & no heat waves, pandemic, inflation, wars etc. The World’s Workers Are Donning Cooling Vests to Battle Record Heat Waves ... BY CHRIS BARANIUK
Garments that can be packed with ice or equipped with fans are becoming increasingly popular among workers exposed to high heat. - see dali48 and watching female construction workers in the heat near medical environment university in Orio in Japan in 1978
see dali48 & Heatwaves in #Europe, see #IPCC #ClimateReport, see #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , #heatwaves #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, #Wildfires in US & Canada, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of wars & inflation etc. War crimes, see e.g. Ukraine etc. - and environmental crimes, see e.g. Kuwait, 50 million tires burn etc. - should be documented & punished by the UNO etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)