Samstag, 24. April 2021

24.04.2021 - P. Schellenbaum and unloved children etc. / dali48 and images etc.

dali48 and teaching and writing and photographing in Erkrath (12/2009) etc.


see dali48 and Psychology and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, E. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum etc.

10.11.2000 - Interpretation of dali48
Unloved children are often under a normative pressure from adults who is stronger than their love. - They are organized instead of loved ones, which is particularly evident in the extreme case of the home children. - Love is initially a signal that old chains fall, and survived norms are destroyed. For this reason, unloved ones have unhappy love-relations - as long as they have not understood, felt and liberated their childhood destiny. - Unloved people feel abandoned by the world. - They do not know that they leave themselves. - There is no solution by others in Buddhism (unlike Christianity, Judaism, Islam), but self-liberation. - This means love and liberation from the ego-addiction. - This paradox can only be understood by own experience. - Early abandoned and unloved people are "you-loosely" and isolated people. - They do what others have done with them: They leave themselves. - Now, even abandoned by themselves, they no longer know anyone who could love them - the "you-loosely", the breach of relationship to the you, makes you to the prisoner of your own unloved ego. - Individual differentness, e.g. belonging to a foreign race, disability, infirmity, conflicting sexual interests, left-handedness, superior abilities, or an outlawed vice point to the fundamental difference of each person. - Great politics today is ultimately meditation on the bomb. - The only question remains whether we choose the external path or the inner one - whether the insight comes from the mind or from the fireballs above the earth. - The inner path of relaxation is love for beings, the external destruction. - Can you fight anger or pride? - The truly solitary person renounces to cling to people, thought and feeling habits, ideologies and religions, wherever a halt is to be found. - By doing this renunciation, he frees himself from the illusion of a world from which he would be separated, and which could only replace him - what he himself is not ... (P. Schellenbaum)

Peter Schellenbaum (* 30. April 1939 in Winterthur; † 25. Mai 2018) war ein Schweizer Psychoanalytiker und Sachbuchautor, der die psychotherapeutische ...


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