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Who loves well, who prays well... (S. T. Coleridge)

Samuel Taylor Coleridge [ˈkoʊlərɪdʒ oder ˈkoʊlrɪdʒ] (* 21. Oktober 1772 in Ottery St Mary, Devon; † 25. Juli 1834 in Highgate, London) war ein englischer ...

When I wake up this morning, I smile - 24 dewy hours lie ahead of me ... (Thich Nhat Hanh)

Thích Nhất Hạnh (/ˈtɪk ˈnjʌt ˈhʌn/; born October 11, 1926) is a Vietnamese Zen Buddhist monk, teacher, author, poet and peace activist. He lives in the Plum ...

Unfortunately, ignoring and suppressing emotions - too often leads to depression, anxiety, mental disorders, overeating, drinking, shopping and drug abuse, as well as many other problems - that are systematic for disregarding and improperly processing our actual feelings ... (D. & J. Kramer)

Saudade is a deep emotional state of nostalgic or profound melancholic longing for an absent something or someone that one cares for and/or loves. Moreover, it often carries a repressed knowledge that the object of longing ... are unknown, such as old ways and sayings; a lost lover who is sadly missed; a faraway place ...

Everything is sacred - when we feel with a spiritual heart - In most marriages or intimate relationships between 2 people there is an unwritten contract: I will make you happy and you me - I am responsible for your happiness and you for mine - the one success is that both are unhappy - According to this contract, it is not your responsibility if you are unhappy - but that of the partner - It is like an extension of the childish dependence on the recognition and approval of the parents - and for most couples, the individual wants above all the approval of the partner and expects - that the partner somehow makes him happy - Often this means that one neglects one's own wishes, that one hopes for support and compassion and resent the other - if he does not react properly - Luise was afraid that it might hurt her marriage if she satisfied herself, but I reassured her that one does not become addicted to pleasure from trying out 1 or 2 times a week - what can arouse a sexual arousal - Withheld from pleasant feelings, one can also find less enjoyment of the person one loves, including partners and children - Your own health, your well-being and your marriage must come first - In a short time they could not look each other in the eye anymore - without getting angry - Where there is love, there is also hate - Many partners believe that love means never being angry with another person, never doing him wrong, never being annoyed, hurt or upset by the other - The fear to be bound again, in the sense of being trapped, the fear that comes from an unfortunate childhood - is overpowering - Married couples whose relationships are burdened by emotional conflicts from parent conflicts - are becoming increasingly unhappy and alienated ... (H. H. Bloomfield)

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