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27.01.2020 - V. Kast and couples and indifference and toddlers and feelings etc...

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In my opinion, the difference to sadomasochistic couples is that indifferent people are even more desperate, have even greater non-self-esteem, have experienced more injuries ...

15.02.2013 - Interpretation of dali48

Indifference is the absolute and strongest revenge in a relationship that was originally about affirmation of self-esteem - Other people can contribute much to our happiness and unhappiness, but they are not responsible for our happiness or misfortune - Because in mistrust we close each other - and then just the confirmations, which could still take place, no longer take place - Lurking in the background, the fear of separation, the fear of injury, loss of love, loss of self-worth are rooted in a fear of the being alone and loneliness - Fear of loneliness is often associated with feelings of rejection, misunderstanding and being left alone - These feelings are in contrast to our wishful thinking of being loved and accepted by others as we are - also with our physicality and sexuality - We know about infants who are abandoned by their relatives that their vitality diminishes immediately, exploration and play activity diminishes, mood subsides, children cry, scream and become passive - as well as our interest in the world diminishes - if we have the feeling to be abandoned (in adult life) - The feeling of emptiness is the defense against loneliness. But if we learn what is in us, then the feeling of not simply being dependent on other people, not simply being at the mercy of their benevolence or displeasure - we clearly feel that we are somebody ourselves ... (V. Kast)

Verena Kast (* 24. Januar 1943 in Wolfhalden, Schweiz) ist eine Schweizer Psychologin und Professorin für Psychologie an der Universität Zürich sowie ...


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