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02.11.2012 - Interpretation of dali48
Infidelity therefore belongs to human nature and takes account of the fact that, after 3 to 4 years of cohabitation, the "chemistry" between 2 people lost its magic power and the sexual stimulus emanating from the partner is diminished - Most divorces (according to statistics) take place in the fourth year of marriage... - The successful functioning of a couple relationship depends on the fact that husband and wife bring equivalence to their marriage... - "Love" is given under the presupposition and silent expectation to receive an equivalent consideration - The idea of so - called selfless love emerges as self-deception... - In a partnership there are ultimately market-economy perspectives that something must be given to get something - The most stable and happiest is the marriage - if there is a balance of power and consideration, and each one gets exactly what he is entitled according to his opinion - It is not necessary to pay the same with equal:
"Love" can be exchanged for security, sex against material attachment (money), attractiveness against warmth... - Erich Fromm is one of the first callers in the desert who warned already in the 50s of the imminent collapse of human couples - For him, the relationship results from the lack of loving ability of today's Western people - who live in a world of goods and consumption and have only their pleasure in the sense (see "fun culture" etc. - d.48)... (D. Stiemerling)
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09/22/2011 - Interview with Author dali48 on Google +