dali48 and studying and punting and photographing in Tubingen etc...
19.11.1999 - Interpretation of dali48
People who say and imagine negative things usually feel bad - These feelings then affect their partnerships, their behavior, their sex life... - and all their other living areas... - First of all, regardless of the causes of distance and hostility in their relationship, you should restore closeness and willingness to cooperate in your partnership - before you can work productively on your sex life... - Almost all sex therapists believe that a couple is close to each other, and the relationship should be as good as possible before the partners can work productively on a sexual problem at all... - Rationally I understand that talking can help - but it never seems to help with us - If we try to talk about our problems, one or both will get angry and everything goes down the stream - Let it remain to want to prove the legality of your position - and avoid persisting in your judgment and to reproach injustice to her - that is lethal to a relationship... (B. Zilbergeld)
Annex2 to the blogs of dali48
09/22/2011 - Interview with Author dali48 on Google +