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28.03.1999 - Interpretation of dali48
I see a picture in front of me:
A man and a woman meet:
No one wants to marry, no one wants children, no one wants to wash the dish - What would remain is sex, professional interests and intellectual, philosophical subjects - That is, if the traditional functions of women are omitted - there would be very little left for men and women - or to hold them together - And maybe that would be good, healthy and honest - definitely less stressful... (S. Reichel)
Happiness is for women the happiness of the moment, a happiness which they never trust when it lies outside their mother and womanhood - Misfortune seems natural to them, because their lives are built on disappointment and renunciation - No one wants the forcible, the falsely, the exerting one any longer... - Whoever has a wrong self, he also seeks the wrong self in the other - Man desperately looks for the mirror, which can reproduce misfortune and simultaneously catch and heal - But the opposite usually occurs - It is precisely the inability to approach the other with real feelings, which is why one has chosen the sham partner... - The best occasion to befriend oneself and redefine ones life is usually the most sorrowful: death or love - Both leave us helpless and hurt - Why should we love (or what we think) only men (women)? - Why shouldn't you love yourself at least as much as the best friend, a child, a dog, an idea, a picture, a book, a house... - Why can't you be a gift for yourself? - Love is also to be able to say: "I want myself" - instead of "I want you"... - If everyone no longer has to be everything for the other - there will be much fewer disappointments and injuries - We all could easily find partners with whom we would be better matched in this or that relationship than with our companion - Whether we could have a better relationship with them in general - is doubtful... (B. Zilbergeld)
Golden Snow It is really amazing the way our relationships work out or even start. It seems the harder we try to please dali48 the worse things go. I believe relationships are give and take, not only in words but in everyday life, nothing is perfect so we do the best we can, my thoughts.
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