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14.12.1998 - Interpretation of dali48
All such attempts to escape oneself must fail - the only real escape from life is death - In the alcoholic there is a terrible rage, which is based on feelings of guilt against his own self - Feelings of guilt for sexual impulses and anger are the psychic basis for the flight into the alcohol - It is neither a sedative (see eg, valerian, etc. - d.48) nor an anesthetic, although it can reduce anxiety and pain sensitivity... - Alcohol does not inhibit and lays a distance between humans and the reality, which allows a certain amount of expression... - We all know the pressure at work or at home, but the inner stress is the most important - It arises when oppressed feelings threaten to break into consciousness - In general this happens, when the external stress is diminished, as on weekends or on vacation - What happens when one has strong sexual feelings, but at the same time excessive feelings of guilt? - It is enough to drive one into the madness - Since a life without feelings is meaningless - these people grab every drug, which promises a feeling of excitement and liveliness... - The madness lies here in the loss of the contact to the life of the body, and in the flight into a world of fantasies and images of imagination... - The self-acceptance is what lacks the narcissistic people who have separated their bodies from themselves, so that the libido is invested into the "ego" (see Illusion etc. - d.48), and not in the body or in the self - Without self-acceptance there is no self-love... - The tragedy of narcissistic people is that they desperately desire to be loved or to love - but they can not express these feelings or they dare not - It would cause them too much pain... - Denying their own feelings is crazy - for it is a denial of the self... (A. Lowen)
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