dali48 and writing books and photographing lakes etc...
17.07.1998 - Interpretation of dali48
You can have confidence without intimacy, but no intimacy without confidence ... - There is no nearness without conflict - Stand to your complaints or you will get nothing but the illusion of peace... - The more you blame your partner, the less responsibility will she take - if you show yourself vulnerable, your partner can also allow that to happen - I have not felt anymore secure in my own body... - Do you understand what a crazy feeling that is? - What do you need from me to make you feel loved and caring? - What is missing in our partnership? - What touches do you like? - A woman, for example, believes that her husband has to deceive her when he does not get an erection - A man, for example, believes that his wife should always know what he likes - Sex should come automatically - We should not touch or be intimate until we get better together - If I ask you to do something different in bed, I will hurt your feelings or vice versa - This is not worth the change - If our relationship were sustainable enough and we were normal, we would not need fantasies or sexual aids - I am ashamed of my sexuality and will never overcome this... (J & M Spring)
So they fought (see eg Christians 1618 - 1648 etc. - d.48) and ran and banged each other - while the wise Taoist sits calmly at a river, has perhaps a poem book (see books), wine (see tea), and his painting things (see my diary - d.48) with him, and enjoys the Tao with a happy heart, without ever worrying about whether it exists or not - The wise man does not have to use his power for the Tao - He is busy to enjoy it... (R. Smullyan)
Annex2 to the blogs of dali48
09/22/2011 - Interview with Author dali48 on Google +