Samstag, 30. Juli 2016

13.03.2019 - Dissociative defense / Fear of commitment etc…

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11.02.2014 - Dissociative Defense... by dali48 on HP


24.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48 

If our relationships get off... - we all tend to blame our partners or associates for...
We all have to protect ourselves... - and maintain our emotional and physical... - until we know – not hope that things will go well...
Some of us are so hungry for... - that they give too much too... - We open our hearts, our doors, our fridge and sometimes even our... - We hardly set boundaries and keep back little or... - We let new people too quickly in our... - We don’t protect ourselves... - We give more than is required of... - We risk too much in the name of...
If you are changing for the... - your relationships will also be...
The patients get the intense, delusional... - that the sub-personalities are separate... - It is a therapeutic balancing... - to accept Dissociative Defense... - on the one hand as a survival... - on the other, to teach that all sub-personalities belong to a single... - and that this is a shared… (P. Lambert)

Such patients have experienced the worst... - of relationship from early... - and have therefore great difficulties to engage in a trusting... - They grew up in a family system with extreme... - and arbitrariness of experience - They had no way to a feeling of self-determination or develop... - Permanent transgressions were... - and are internalized as a relationship... 

When we made too many negative... - we lose the courage to... (S. Carter / J. Sokol)

Dissociation is any of a wide array of experiences from mild detachment from immediate .... Psychological defense mechanisms belong to Freud's theory of ...
Missing: Survival

In self-help literature, fear of commitment is the avoidance of long-term partnership or marriage. ... Steven A. Carter & Julia Sokol (1987). Men Who Can't Love.


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see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...






Freitag, 29. Juli 2016

13.03.2019 - Causes of Death and atherosclerosis / Thich Nhat Hanh and zen etc...

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11.02.2014 - Causes of Death ... by dali48 on HP


09/06/2000 - Interpretation of dali48 

Causes of death in Germany: 
1st Cardiac infarction...
2nd Cancer...
3rd Stroke... (Rhine Post, 05.09.2000)

In our society there is a serious... - We can send e-mails and faxes all over the... - but in our families and to our neighbors, we are not…
There is an emptiness in... - and we try to fill it with... - reading, talking, smoking, drinking, TV, cinema and even with work-holism - We need to find a cure for our... (Thich Nhat Hanh)


Jump to Cause - The leading cause of human death in developing countries is infectious disease. The leading causes in developed countries are atherosclerosis (heart disease and stroke), cancer, and other diseases related to obesity and aging.

Thích Nhất Hạnh (/ˈtɪk ˈnjʌt ˈhʌn/; Vietnamese: [tʰǐk̟ ɲə̌t hâjŋ̟ˀ] ( About this sound listen); born as Nguyễn Xuân Bảo on October 11, 1926) is a ...
Teacher‎: ‎Thích Chân Thật
School‎: ‎Linji school‎ (Lâm Tế); ‎Order of Interbei...
Lineage‎: ‎42nd generation (Lâm Tế); 8th gener...
Religion‎: ‎Thiền Buddhism


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diary of dali48: 08.10.2018 - Ecology and Environment and Interaction... http://dali48.blogspot.com/2018/10/08102018-ecology-and-environment-and.html?spref=tw … see dali48 on Twitter,Google,Blogspot,http://Bod.de,FB,Pinterest,StumbleUpon dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...