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"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie"... (@spectraspeaks)
Part 81... by Golden Snow
We do not realize that we are kept in isolation for a very good reason because we tend to think that it is because they love us and do not want to share us. The reason for the isolation is that they do not want anyone to see what they do to us. They want to keep a clean record for themselves, looking like the perfect husband or boyfriend. I can assure you that this is the worst thing for you to do, to retreat from the world and stay in the trap you are in. I lied and gave excuses for black eyes and bruises... so wrong ... Your spouse or boyfriend wants this, and he relies on this. When you find the courage to break away, none believes you because all of a sudden he is the good one, and you are trash. One has to get past the fear and shaking inside and find solid territory. If we act in a positive way we can overcome doubts, fears and low self-esteem. Keep in mind that the world holds for us a better life and healthier relationships. As we stand our grounds we find that we are a lot stronger than we know.
I know that in life things happen too fast, but looking forward with determination we will submerge from our misery. We face conflicts, disappointment but keep looking at the light as it grows brighter as you repair and defend your rights. We can become a victim to those who recognize it and move in to attack their prey. Being the captured one can go on for years as it did with me. We have low esteem of ourselves and are manipulated to believe that we are worthless. We continue to have compassion for the person who victimized us, and we must understand that this compassion only leaves us when we remove ourselves as their victim, both in body and in mind. Only at this time can you become responsible for yourself.
Golden Snow "This entry was a step forward from the past and also a grounding in the present dali48 ... thank you always for your postings ..."
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