30.06.2018 - The Snow Dance Part 45 etc... by Golden Snow

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Part 45... by Golden Snow

People pleasing is a behaviour we can adopt when we do not get the love and attention we need or even that we deserve ... we seem to get ourselves into a mode of just keeping others happy ... filling their needs .... we quietly move through life making decisions that please everyone around us, spouse, family, friends ... we tend to not pay attention to our own needs ... most of us recover from this but others like myself continue the masquerade ... we place this mask upon ourselves and literally spend time looking for ways to please others ... denial is a protective device for us, we need to know people like us ... need us ... through our lives people often to help us even shout the truth at us but we refuse to hear or listen ... we are on a path of ... love me ... like me...

The rest of the ride to Halifax is lost somewhere inside of me ... buried with all feeling of hope ... the greatest gift we can bring into a relationship is being who we are ... but that was not good enough in my case ... I had to be what they wanted me to be there, always had to please ... we reached his sister's home, and she came out and met her brother and wrapped her arms around him ... I heard her say: "I am sorry Danny, you deserve better" ... they remained embracing for some time ... then they turned and looked at me, his sister shook her head and said: "Who would have guessed" ... I blushed in shame and diverted my eyes ... a habit I soon was using most of my life ... Danny came over and said: "Come on, I have to get going, I have things to pack tonight, you go with Thelma, she will see to your needs" ... I got out of the car and stood there thinking that he might hold me before he left ... he turned and got into the car...

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