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27.05.2001 - Interpretation of dali48

A morning with Zen is a good... - every day is a good... - no matter how rough it might... - Zen is as free as a bird that flies - like the fish swimming - the lily which blooms... (D. T. Suzuki)

This cultural denial of... - has meant that many of us grow up with great fear of... - Through the glorification of violent films and... - this image of death has been particularly... - as a frightening prospect... 
Our emotional attachment to... - does not mean that we automatically... - from the relationships, roles, opinions or material things in our... - it is rather that we let go our... - to cling to it... 
Living in the present... - that we must always be able to... - and start over again... (C. Grof)



Daisetsu Teitaro Suzuki was a Japanese author of books and essays on Buddhism, Zen (Chan) and Shin that were instrumental in spreading interest in both ...
Died‎: ‎12 July 1966 (aged 95); ‎Kamakura‎, Japan
Notable awards‎: ‎National Medal of Culture
Born‎: ‎18 October 1870; Honda-machi, ‎Kanaza...

The present (or here and now) is the time that is associated with the events perceived directly ... They teach that those who live in the present moment are the happiest. A number of meditative techniques aim to help the practiser live in the ...
Missing: (C. ‎Grof)

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Samstag, 30. Juli 2016

13.03.2019 - Dissociative defense / Fear of commitment etc…

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24.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48 

If our relationships get off... - we all tend to blame our partners or associates for...
We all have to protect ourselves... - and maintain our emotional and physical... - until we know – not hope that things will go well...
Some of us are so hungry for... - that they give too much too... - We open our hearts, our doors, our fridge and sometimes even our... - We hardly set boundaries and keep back little or... - We let new people too quickly in our... - We don’t protect ourselves... - We give more than is required of... - We risk too much in the name of...
If you are changing for the... - your relationships will also be...
The patients get the intense, delusional... - that the sub-personalities are separate... - It is a therapeutic balancing... - to accept Dissociative Defense... - on the one hand as a survival... - on the other, to teach that all sub-personalities belong to a single... - and that this is a shared… (P. Lambert)

Such patients have experienced the worst... - of relationship from early... - and have therefore great difficulties to engage in a trusting... - They grew up in a family system with extreme... - and arbitrariness of experience - They had no way to a feeling of self-determination or develop... - Permanent transgressions were... - and are internalized as a relationship... 

When we made too many negative... - we lose the courage to... (S. Carter / J. Sokol)

Dissociation is any of a wide array of experiences from mild detachment from immediate .... Psychological defense mechanisms belong to Freud's theory of ...
Missing: Survival

In self-help literature, fear of commitment is the avoidance of long-term partnership or marriage. ... Steven A. Carter & Julia Sokol (1987). Men Who Can't Love.


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