01.02.2014 - Emotional Conflict1 and "modern madness" etc.
dali48 and writing books and photographing in the park of Wickrath Castle since 6/2010 etc.
Emotional Conflict... by dali48 on HP
31.12. 2000 - Interpretation of dali48
But the truth is that emotional well-being takes for granted the reverse behavior: to fully respond to what one fears the most...
Who wants to resolve a conflict with you fairly and lovingly - will: talk openly about the conflict with you, find out your feelings and concerns...
Who wants to emerge victorious from a conflict with you - will: try to control you, and over-hear your protest there... (S. Forward)
Interpretation of dali48
"Emotional conflicts and the intervention of the unconscious are the classical features of... medical psychology" for C. G. Jung. Equally, 'Freud's concept of emotional conflict as amplified by Anna Freud... Erikson and others is central in contemporary theories of...
Such conflicts in adult life may be defined as the presence in the subconscious of different and opposing emotions relating to a situation that has recently taken place or is in the process of... 'The early stages of emotional development are full of potential conflict and disruption'. Infancy and childhood are a time when 'everything is polarised into extremes of...
Defenses against emotional conflict include 'splitting and projection. They deal with intra-psychic conflict not by addressing it, but by sidestepping it'. Displacement too can help resolve such conflicts...
Inner emotional conflicts can result in physical discomfort or pain, often in the form of tension headaches, which can be episodic or chronic, and may last from a...
With respect to the post-industrial age, 'La Bier writes of "modern madness" - the hidden link between work and emotional conflict... For Picasso 'the presence of death is always coincident - with the taste for life... (Wikipedia)
Golden Snow
“In homes where conflict is present it affects all in the household or work place ... feelings are felt even when not directly involved ... especially where children are concerned ... their health both physically and mentally ... leaving scares for life ... Conflict should be resolved and let go, but in most cases goes on for weeks or even years ... causing discomfort for all involved”...
01.02.2014 - Escape1 from Everyday Life and Creativity etc.
dali48 and private teaching and photographing his folding bike at Lake Morper in Erkrath, 8/1983 - 5/2010
Escape from Everyday Life... by dali48 on HP
03.06.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
Many of those who follow the impulse to escape from the demands of everyday life - are thin-skinned and open-hearted... (C. Grof)
Perhaps they have suffered abuse, and since then cannot bear - the suffering in the world...
If we are indifferent, we are aloof and not affected, unable to express our interest in others or our sympathy for them. We keep emotional distance - from the fluctuations in our lives... Can anyone seriously suggest that I should be grateful - for a life full of fear, shame, confusion and anger?
We find it easier to condemn ourselves than to recognize and to express our painful emotions - In reality, the necessity for forgiveness...
Forgiveness is the answer to the children's dream of a miracle by which the broken is healed - and the dirty is cleaned again... (D. Hammerskjöld)
Forgiveness is not for the benefit of one who has hurt us - Yet it grows out of pity. It serves our own well-being...
Like a cat that has fallen asleep on a chair peacefully, in peace - and one with the master of the house, with the mistress - at home in the house of the living - sleeping on the hearth, and yawning before the fire... (D. H. Lawrence)
Take the cotton from the ears - and stuff it in the mouth... (12-step program)
Those who have been cheated and abused, often have to react so that they withdraw - from the rest of the world and create protective...
We will not get anyone close to us - because we have all the answers. What he might have to add?
Angeles Arrien says that where there is no sense of humor, we are “addicted” - We can take our path (see Tao, etc. - d.48) seriously, without being “addicted” to it... (C. Grof)
If we do not love our own bodies - how can we ever love anyone? ... (T.N.H.)
Interpretation of dali48
Creativity refers to the phenomenon whereby a person creates something new (a product, solution, artwork, literary work, joke, etc.) that has some kind of value... The lexeme in the English word creativity comes from the Latin term creō "to create, make" and its derivational suffixes also come from Latin. The word "create" appears in English as early as the 14th century...
This work disputes the earlier hypothesis that creative solutions to problems arise mysteriously from the unconscious mind while the conscious mind is...
In The Act of Creation, Arthur Koestler introduced the concept of bisociation - that creativity arises as a result of the intersection...
This idea was later developed into conceptual blending. In the '90s, various approaches in cognitive science that dealt with...
Other researchers have related creativity to the trait, openness to experience... Creativity as measured by the Torrance Tests of Creative Thinking increased until 1990 in the United States. An effect similar to the Flynn effect. Thereafter scores have been declining...
This article also explored the links between creativity and sleep, mood and addiction disorders, and depression...
Barbara Fredrickson in her broaden-and-build model suggests that positive emotions such as joy and love broaden a person's available repertoire of cognition and actions, thus enhancing creativity...
In addition, several systematic studies of highly creative individuals and their relatives have uncovered a higher incidence of affective disorders (primarily bipolar disorder and depression) than that found in the general population... (Wikipedia)
Golden Snow
“Good one for me I always blame myself before I blame others, saying I am sorry when it’s not my fault ... condemning ourselves is so easy ... we only have ourselves to cope with ... letting close to me is not easy ... people say I am strange, but I really am not just keep to myself ... coming from an abusive back ground is part to blame, I also find quite is less confusing ... my life is quite, most days I love this ... I believe I take my own path in life .. is it an escape ... yes I believe so .. I find the world confusing and most days senseless chatter and noise ...I find joy in nature, in my sweet little kitten ... and interesting and quite people”...
03.02.2014 - Mysterious Depths1 and Daydreaming etc.
dali48 and private teaching and writing diary3 and photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010
Mysterious Depths... by dali48 on HP
13.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
Rampant fear, loneliness oppressed many, emptiness and futility are spreading. - The ancient, mysterious depths, and questions have remained the same...
Then, suddenly there are diseases in animals (see e.g. BSE, FMD, etc. - d.48) and humans - which present us with completely new questions... (Rhine Post, 12.04.2001)
Life Principles:
1st The "weed" principle. "Weed," increases on its own - "Weeds" (see wild herbs, etc. - d.48) does not pass...
2. The bounce-back principle: Since they have the priority in itself (see optimists, etc. - d.48), nothing really throws it around... Love and honor yourself, keep your self-respect - and stay true to yourself - Imagine in everything you do and think - there is always the question...
Daydreaming (see dali48, etc.) - that has held the modern psychology - is not "escapism" in the negative sense. You relax and create a positive attitude...
Similarly, you can wish all you want to savor it in your dreams to the last detail - without being disappointed... (H. Kluge)
Interpretation of dali48
Daydreaming is a short-term detachment from one's immediate surroundings, during which a person's contact with reality is blurred and partially substituted by...
There are many types of daydreams, and there is no consistent definition among psychologists, however the characteristic that is common to all forms of daydreaming (see dali48 and “migration inside” because of being spied on & bullied etc. in Erkrath since 1989 etc. – d.48)...
As craft production was largely replaced by assembly line that did not allow for any creativity - no place was left for positive aspects of...
Freudian psychology interpreted daydreaming as expression of the repressed instincts - similarly to those revealing themselves in... Humanistic psychology on other hand, found numerous examples of people in creative or artistic careers - such as composers, novelists and filmmakers, developing new ideas...
Similarly, research scientists and mathematicians have developed new ideas by daydreaming about their subject areas...
Research by Harvard psychologist Deirdre Barrett has found that people who experience vivid dream-like mental images reserve the word for these, whereas many other people... (Wikipedia)
Golden Snow
“Daydreaming is one things I do well ... as a child I would go into the woods in search of my real home , I did this day after day my Mother worried because sometime I went deep into the woods in back of our home ... I would find a nice cool mossy place and lay back and close my eyes and all my heart desired was there ... as time went on I searched for my sweet Prince , this never left my mind even as I grew older I would find myself drifting into a world of beauty when people and places were to much to handle ... my sweet Prince was my safe place to comfort and protect me” …
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
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dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
see Human Rights & Survival without clean air ca. 3 minutes, clean water ca. 3 days, clean food ca. 30 days etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and a nervous breakdown (burnout) & 1 year of psychotherapy as a student in Tübingen in 1973 etc.
see dali48 and "Flora & Fauna" since ca. 2000 etc. - “If the "Flora & Fauna" disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind wouldn't have anything left to survive” etc.
21.06.2023 - I didn't see a butterfly yet in Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
Leaf blowers against bees etc. in the gardens correspond to hurricanes against humans etc. (dali48)
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
“There is no greater wealth in this world than peace of mind.” ~ Unknown
Psychology says, Trust your intuition. It never lies.
see dali48 & FGYO / SIT, language teacher, 1975/76 in Tübingen and Lenzkirch (Black Forest), and wandering in the morning, and in Erkrath (8/1983-5/2010) cooking houseman and teaching in the afternoon, on Saturdays & compact courses during holidays etc.
see dali48 and walking and cycling etc. - and without own car in Erkrath since 2004 - and without driving in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
"It takes few words to express the essential" - Paul Éluard
"One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." ... (H. Miller)
"The past is pain, the future uncertainty. The present is all we have" ... (Tao Wong)
„Wer immer die Wahrheit sagt, kann sich ein schlechtes Gedächtnis leisten.“ (F. Sulzer
)
"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." (F. Kafka)
see dali48 and bees and CCD and "neonics" since ca. 2000 etc.
In "love" are the beginning and the climax - the most beautiful periods etc... (dali48)
"Time spent with cats is never wasted." (S. Freud)
Why not use bio-methane, hydrogen, bio heating oil, e-heating oil - instead of banning oil and gas heating etc. (dali48)
"Only the present moment counts, even when the subject is the past." (R. D. Brinkmann)
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
Why not recreate lost Wetlands by desalinated sea water? ... (dali48)
Half of the money for arms should go as reparation to "flora & fauna" & UBI ,,, (dali48)
More money than 1 million should be redistributed into small basic incomes etc. (dali48)
"#UBI is the only policy that can end the Rat Race before it ends us." e money for arms
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
see dali48 and environmental disasters & @sara_s_2020 & #Tiredearth & Manila Slum (Philippines) & Creek etc.
»Auf dem Grabstein (der Erde; d. Red.) könnte stehen: Jeder wollte das Beste – für sich.« (Siegfried Lenz)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that"s why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." (@PsychologyDose_)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" ... (Osho)
"Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there" ... (Osho)
"Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
see
see dali48 and nervous breakdown & psychotherapy (1 year) in Tübingen in 1974 and the ontogenetic & phyloggenetic unconscious etc.
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population." Spelt helps: fatigue, loss of energy, heart problems etc. (St Hilda)
@dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups, from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & "The already uninhabitable Earth. Today (3.7.23), Zabol in Iran recorded the highest temperature on Earth at 49.6C" (@PGDynes), see e.g. https://aljazeera.com/news/2023/6/30/out-of-time-temperature-records-topple-around-the-world, & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of clean air (see e.g. Shanghai Air etc.) & drinking water (see desalination of sea water since ca. 2000), enough trees & healthy fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy since the 70s & UBI since 2008 & biodiversity & health & no heat waves, pandemic, inflation, wars etc. The World’s Workers Are Donning Cooling Vests to Battle Record Heat Waves ... BY CHRIS BARANIUK
Garments that can be packed with ice or equipped with fans are becoming increasingly popular among workers exposed to high heat. - see dali48 and watching female construction workers in the heat near medical environment university in Orio in Japan in 1978
see dali48 & Heatwaves in #Europe, see #IPCC #ClimateReport, see #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , #heatwaves #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, #Wildfires in US & Canada, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of wars & inflation etc. War crimes, see e.g. Ukraine etc. - and environmental crimes, see e.g. Kuwait, 50 million tires burn etc. - should be documented & punished by the UNO etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)