Dienstag, 16. Mai 2017

04.09.2019 - Reichel and mothers and children and Germany and hate crime etc...

02.07.2015 - Adventures4 with Karl May books and "The Treasure of Silver Lake" etc...
dali48 and teaching and writing books and photographing a gold fish etc...


02.04.1999 - Interpretation of dali48

One might imagine that, despite the nurturing qualities, these mothers also make a contribution to this - when the little ones, become murderers and rapists, child molesters and women hunters, become porn kings and drug addicts, not to mention unacceptable husbands and incomprehensible macho lovers...
To put children in the world is the most comfortable way to flee from dealing with their own emotions - and to cover the emptiness and the feeling of non-essence... - The hostility to children, manifested by employers, laws, landlords and the atmosphere in restaurants and in public places - especially in Germany - is just as well known as always surprising - Strong wishes for children as well as strong child rejection often have neurotic traits - Most of them hide behind deep injuries and repressions from their own childhood and education - "I love children" - is like "I love people" - rarely the truth... - Often insecure, distrustful, and hurt, they flee from the parents' house - not joyfully and fully-fledged, but with broken wings... - With her son, she chained the man forever to herself and laid the chains of motherhood on her own - This story is not about the wish for children, but about the concealment of a sick soul... - There is no protection from loss, loneliness, and fear... - Not only does she bear the child, she also bears the burden of the notions of a holy morality in a thoroughly corrupt world... - When it comes to insanity, absurdity, and perversion, the Pope takes a special position... - What comes next? - It is cynical to say that indeed the unborn life is sadly to be protected more often - namely, to come into the world! - The prohibition of contraception (see e.g. condoms, pills, etc. - d.48) in the age of AIDS is "criminal", and is equal to a suicide attack... - Why is it possible to operate on unborn babies in the mother's womb, to communicate with fax machines all over the world, but must go to bed with dubious pills, leaping pessaries, the fear of saying "no" to sex - if no contraception takes place or you simply do not feel like the man (woman) - It is not the egoistic fear of the failure of the own lust fulfillment - but the fear of rejection and "non-love" - Her desire for men is his position and his checkbook - and his for women is the size of her breast and her availability... (S. Reichel)

A hate crime is a prejudice-motivated crime which occurs when a perpetrator targets a victim ... Manifestations[show] .... While the actual animosity present in such a crime can be quite low, .... The German Criminal Code does not have hate crime legislation, but instead ...... Anti-social behaviour · Bullying · Child abuse.

dali48author ‏@dali48

05.10.2015 - Autoreninterview.doc - docs.google.com/document/d/17R see dali48 on Google,Blogspot,Bod.de,StumbleUpon,Pinterest,Twitter,Goodreads...



dali48 on Goodreads 
https://www.goodreads.com/dali48

 amazon.com/author/dali48 Share  
this URL:  diary3 by dali48 on twitter


diary of dali48: 08.10.2018 - Ecology and Environment and Interaction... http://dali48.blogspot.com/2018/10/08102018-ecology-and-environment-and.html?spref=tw … see dali48 on Twitter,Google,Blogspot,http://Bod.de,FB,Pinterest,StumbleUpon




dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...

04.09.2019 - Reichel and a picture / Zilbergeld and happiness and feelings etc...

11.08.2015 - JD Salinger3 and "The Catcher in the Rye" etc...
dali48 and teaching and writing books and photographing in Erkrath etc...


28.03.1999 - Interpretation of dali48

I see a picture in front of me:
A man and a woman meet:
No one wants to marry, no one wants children, no one wants to wash the dish - What would remain is sex, professional interests and intellectual, philosophical subjects - That is, if the traditional functions of women are omitted - there would be very little left for men and women - or to hold them together - And maybe that would be good, healthy and honest - definitely less stressful... (S. Reichel)

Happiness is for women the happiness of the moment, a happiness which they never trust when it lies outside their mother and womanhood - Misfortune seems natural to them, because their lives are built on disappointment and renunciation - No one wants the forcible, the falsely, the exerting one any longer... - Whoever has a wrong self, he also seeks the wrong self in the other - Man desperately looks for the mirror, which can reproduce misfortune and simultaneously catch and heal - But the opposite usually occurs - It is precisely the inability to approach the other with real feelings, which is why one has chosen the sham partner... - The best occasion to befriend oneself and redefine ones life is usually the most sorrowful: death or love - Both leave us helpless and hurt - Why should we love (or what we think) only men (women)? - Why shouldn't you love yourself at least as much as the best friend, a child, a dog, an idea, a picture, a book, a house... - Why can't you be a gift for yourself? - Love is also to be able to say: "I want myself" - instead of "I want you"... - If everyone no longer has to be everything for the other - there will be much fewer disappointments and injuries - We all could easily find partners with whom we would be better matched in this or that relationship than with our companion - Whether we could have a better relationship with them in general - is doubtful... (B. Zilbergeld)

Golden Snow It is really amazing the way our relationships work out or even start. It seems the harder we try to please dali48 the worse things go. I believe relationships are give and take, not only in words but in everyday life, nothing is perfect so we do the best we can, my thoughts.


Jun 20, 2002 - Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld, a psychologist whose widely read books helped debunk popular assumptions about male sexuality, died on June 12 at his home in Oakland, Calif. ... In his 1978 book ''Male Sexuality,'' Dr. Zilbergeld challenged the idea that male sexual function was simple and ...

dali48author ‏@dali48

05.10.2015 - Autoreninterview.doc - docs.google.com/document/d/17R see dali48 on Google,Blogspot,Bod.de,StumbleUpon,Pinterest,Twitter,Goodreads...



dali48 on Goodreads 
https://www.goodreads.com/dali48

 amazon.com/author/dali48 Share  
this URL:  diary3 by dali48 on twitter


diary of dali48: 08.10.2018 - Ecology and Environment and Interaction... http://dali48.blogspot.com/2018/10/08102018-ecology-and-environment-and.html?spref=tw … see dali48 on Twitter,Google,Blogspot,http://Bod.de,FB,Pinterest,StumbleUpon




dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...