dali48 and private tuition and writing books and photographing a gold fish in Lake Morp etc...
01.02.1998 - Interpretation of dali48
With some certainty, Mr. X will have defeated his wife after a few rounds - since she has a good prerequisite for a defeat as a woman:
- She does not have a strong adult ego, and she tends to "rescue" and "nurture"... - Control and power in itself provide no well-being - We only find it when we have enough food, shelter, space, caress, love and soul peace - All of this is not achieved through "power-play", but through collaboration... - No help without contract - Do not hold anyone for helpless... - If your counterpart feels helpless, help him to use his existing powers - Do not use a special chair or seat - Do not go to the phone during the group sessions... - Do not dress more expensive than the group participants... - Only draw the attention of the group to you if it is therapeutically justified - Do not interrupt anyone - Reject all the salutations spoken from a subordinate position - Flattery of the type "you are fantastic!", should be rejected - Keep attention that you speak from a position of equality on all subjects except where you are referred to as an expert... - Your telephone number must be in the phone book - if you are annoyed by a counterpart... - then you have probably got involved in "rescue" (for fear of hurting others)... (C. M. Steiner)
- Claude Michel Steiner (6 January 1935 – 9 January 2017) was a French-born American psychotherapist and writer who wrote extensively about transactional ...Died: 9 January 2017 (aged 82); Ukiah, Califor...Notable works: Warm Fuzzy TaleBorn: 6 January 1935; Paris, France
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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...
see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...